Should I Care That My Girlfriend Is Getting A Massage?

[Matt T.]

My girlfriend and I are in high school. I'm a Junior and shes a Senior. She's going to get a massage tomorrow and it just really gets at me that another guys goin to rub on her and massage her and whatever. To top it all of she gets turned on very easily, so that makes it ever worse so i'm really irritated about this. Should I be annoyed or let this get at me? Give me some advice or comments and tell me what you think or would do or feel.

P.S. She's going to do it regardless of what I tell her, so saying to talk to her about it doesnt help.
I know nothings gonna happen, I just really don't like the idea lol.

 

[allie]

You really should not care. She is getting a massage and some guy is doing his job, how do you know it is even a guy it could very well be a female. The massage will not be a sexual one so I can not image it will turn her on. Stop stressing, its a fucking massage.

 

[Anna]

nahh, its not like shes ever gonna see this guy again. its probably just some old asian man thats gonna do it.

 

[HisBabyGirl<3]

Nah, don't worry. Not all massage therapists are guys, by the way. There's actually way more women in the business. She's doing it because it feels good on her back muscles. It's not to make you mad or see another guy or anything like that. She just wants the feeling of relaxation and pampering that comes with it.

 

[Another Massage Therapist]

You have nothing to worry about. Your girlfriend is receiving a therapeutic body session with a licensed therapist. This means they went to school have the training, and are only offering professional services. We have a high set of standards and ethics in this industry, and I am trying to rid people of their preconceived notions. Massage is no different than seeing a male or female gynecologist, they have no interest in your girlfriend that isn't medically relevant.

P.S. Maybe YOU should go get a massage. It would help you understand why she enjoys it so much!

 

[karen]

you really shouldn't care that this is going to happen

 

[Life In Technicolor]

You are waaaaay too insecure. it's a massage for christ's sake.

 

[Elena]

I think that it seems just a liittllee bit 2 clingy to care. If you really love (or like) her, then you know that nothing would happen. You've gotta trust her is the way I see it. (Plus for all you know, she could have a fat, ugly, old man give her a massage hahah ) I dont have a b/f so I wouldn't know exactly how I would feel, but from my point of view, don't be mad or anything. Its not too big of a deal. I hope I helped, &I hope it all works out!

 

[reys]

think youre a bit paranoid, and have been watching too much tv

 

[StuJag]

If you got a massage would it be ok? Im sure you wouldnt think anything bad would happen if you are there so why no trust with her?

Stu
xxx

 

[KIWI TEE]

Hey

You need to calm down a bit, you girlfriend is going for a massage to relax that is why people get them not for the massuse. The person who is going to be giving the massage will be a proffesional and is only doing his job. You should be annoyed at yourself for thinking something is going to happen when she is only for a massage. Who knows if she will get a guy to massage her usually it is girls who do the massaging.

Don't worry. That is like her getting jealous of a girl hairdresser cutting your hair.