should i go out w a 20 yo guy i met on internet chat?

[Alan]

im 14 gay boy i met 20 yo guy and i rly like him he looks like a model he wants me to come to house should i

 

[GirlyGirl Forever]

Sweetie,... really think about that???
1. You don't even know this guy
2. Your parents wouldn't let you
3. He is a child molelaster! He rap you.
4. If you like him and date him he will go to jail and I guessing you don't want that to happen
5. You can't trust ppl you met on the internet , tou mite say well I'm trusting you now but thing we are a lot safer then that 20 year old.

Remember you ask this question bc you know not 2. But if you knew to you wouldn't be asking.

 

[Sean B]

Alan no you shouldn't unless you want to have the potental of being raped and abused Most internet chat or craigslist meat up (i mean MEAT) up is looking for sex and trouble. Dont do it


sean

 

[dougeebear]

No.

"20 yo guy" Really? Cause I'm 512 years old. Or 3 years old. Or a woman. Or a horse. People lie on the internet, dear.

"He looks like a model" Really? Cause I can send you any number of pictures I've downloaded of really hot models, both male and female, and none of which look fat and old like I really do.

"he wants me to come to house" ABSOLUTELY NOT! The first rule of dating is to meet in a public place, like a coffeeshop or bookstore. AND tell people where you are going. Many people have been killed for trusting the wrong person and going off with them.

I know you're 14 and the attention feels nice. But a 20 year old seeking contact with a 14 year old isn't just legally wrong, it is highly morally suspect. 20 year olds should be interested in college age kids, not middle or high school. Ever see the series "To Catch a Predator"? I think you're in exactly that situtation.

 

[Rocketstar]

Ahh NO WAY!

Never go to anyones house unless you meet them in a neutral place first. I don't care about the age thing, but use a little common sense. You have no idea what he really looks like until you actually meet him, and you have no idea whom he may live with. It could be a set-up. He could be a great person or a total creep!

Use common sense and meet him at the mall or somewhere else safe first.

 

[Catharine]

if you're in canada it's not illegal, everywhere else it is. then again the gay community is pretty small, so you take what you can get most of the time. BUT if you're going to meet someone online, meet in apublic place, not at their house.

 

[Andi C]

Several issues here! First; you are underage, second, do you have any proof that he is who and what he says he is, and third; do you want to put yourself at risk of serious harm, because that is what you would be doing by going to a strangers house.

 

[livewire9]

no...
he's an adult and your a minor,,, it's not apropos...

 

[jon]

seriously no?
not only is it morally questionable it's also illegal.
i think it comes under peadofillia