So i met this guy in a Chat room?

[Euphoric Endeavors]

Know i found this one guy seems to be intriguing to me
he is older maybe like in his 50's and know mind you that im 29 yrs old
he calls and send me text messages every day when its convient for him or me thats how we communicate its evento the point where he evan gave me details about his job i checked it out and its legit and his own personal email account @ his job to keep in contact with him
any way he want s to meet we hit it off just fine we are on each others levels and thats great hereis the twist he's married and im in a relationship were both bisexaul men and he's wanting to play a role im my life as a good role model as a father figure is this good or what we havent met yet or had phone sex just conversation what to do . he also wants me to take my time to meet him when im comfortable. Am i taking the right step towards another good friendship or should i let this go . Dazed & Confused

 

[Alisha]

lol, wow...

 

[Jason]

no , do not do it

 

[TruthTeller]

yes do him !!!


here answer this !!!!!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090809011124AAwF56n

 

[Heart♥]

Eh.. This is a complicated situation. You are both in realationships.. and for all you kno it could be the worst choice ever. But its really up to you..

 

[PollyLove]

Good friendships can be made with people from different generations than yours. YOu can trade your looks for his experience and wisdom. Its a fair trade. That an older man has entaglements is not surprising, if you want to experience this type of thing you have to work around it being exclusive, because the only successful, 50 year old men without a preexisting network are too weird to have anything to do with.

 

[miss s.t.]

no mater gay/bi.....both have partners,shouldn't that count for something? it would be the same for a straight couple right? as to what you want with him(sexual or father figure/role model) well what do you want? if its both,then that's incest. matter of speaking. lol. really id keep online friends online. id look for real potently mates in the free world, who are single...like you,when you decide its time to make it official you want to move on. remember the choices you make will effect others too. safe sex also. good luck
ps......by the way.....if you think hes being very patient with you,thats because hes prying on you. he will wait till you give in,i would hope that you are not coming off as vulnerable. just be wise! because you are wise,you will not: ruin yours or his realationship. get raped. or worse killed! make good choices!

 

[vvrc]

uh what...meet somewhere in person. never online seriously...keep yourself safe man please. take care.

 

[J. â„“ Ã…Â￾ v Ä•â„¢]

He just wants sex.

That's how talks over the internet start, then the sex willl begin to unfold.

 

[wrestling star]

No, it's not good! You're doing so many things wrong I can't even say it all, but I'll try.

1- You are being selfish, and putting your feelings above your boyfriends and his wifes.

2- You didn't even do this in person, you did this crap online.

3- You are doing it with a dude 20+ years older than you, and wanting him to play your dad. (creepayyyy!!!)

4- You would be committing adultery (well, a form of it) and tempting him to do the same.

5- You call "casual sex with a complete stranger when we're cheating on our significant others" a "good friendship".

Sounds like an abusive, kinky, twisted, warped, perverted f*ckbuddies thing to me!