Spouse's friend's foot massage?

[Mark Tate]

My wife and I have a great marriage and she indulges my foot fetish. Foot play is a regular routine of ours. My wife has many single friends and they are mutual friends. I have often asked her if I could massage her friend's feet when she has them over for coffee or lunch, she could treat them to a foot massage after a workout. How cool is that? She flatly refuses to do so and will not even discuss it. Who is being unreasonable? Would you allow your husband to massage your girlfriend's feet?

 

[jacob]

If is was your wife, i'd say no. Just saying.

 

[AJ`]

She's smart. Next you'll want to do.....

 

[Domestic Goddess]

Only your wife knows why she doesn't want for you to massage her friend's feet but it seems that you guys are going to have to draw up some guide lines in regards to this fetish before you feel the need to do it to more than one woman.

I doubt it there is a wrong or right in this situation. I think that it all boils down to how much you and she want to give in. Remember, marriage is 60/40 no one should have to do either number all of the time.

Good luck. If she does give in though, you might get the shock of your life. Her friend may be someone who doesn't want for you to touch her feet to begin with.

 

[I LOVE NOODLES]

feet scare me.

 

[Island Fever]

No. Your wife is right. That's cheating since you are a foot fetishist and it shows a complete lack of respect for the women who would not realize why you were doing it. If you want to keep your good marriage, then leave the subject alone. If you've done anything wrong so far, you've at least just limited it to putting your foot in your mouth. Sorry, I couldn't resist it.

 

[doogy]

you're being unreasonable.
would be lightweight cheating since you'd be getting off on it.