Tantric Massage - Try it!

[discodaug]

Reading the posts about tantric massage certainly got my curiosity up... among other things, so I thought I'd give it a try.

But before I tell you about my experience, there's a few things I think that need to be understood. The biggest of which is that tantric massage is NOT about sex, it's about pleasure. The process is about learning to control the feelings of arousal until the point of arrousal is at it's maximum. You can cum without having an orgasm (ie. if you cum really quick) or you can have an orgasm without cumming (that's the point of tantric massage (but you do get to cum in the end)

So I did some reasearch and found Javonka. her website with all her info is here. The massage was very good and Javanka is very professional in every way. She's located between Cambie and Oak area, just south of Broadway.

I got to her place and we sat down and asked me a few questions about myself, a few things about my health, and sexually related concerns etc. Then she showed me some breathing excercises to help me slow the rate of arrousal.

She started off with a good massage to allow me to relax completely (I was laying on my stomach) then after a little while flipped over and she began to massage the front of me. at first avoiding the north pole. She then began to focus on arrousal and had me focus on my breathing. she would switch back and forth between arousal and relaxation. It brought things to a point where my whole body started to tingle with sexual energy. Once there she instructed me to simple relax and let it all loose which I did, It was a pretty amazing experience. Instead of simply blowing the load it was more like a serious female orgasam where it's felt throughout the entire body. pretty amazing.

I know that this isn't for everybody, so don't count on sex, or the person you're seeing getting naked (consider it a bonus if it's allowed) and certainly no touching. Again, it's not about sex, it's about pleasure. It's different but I found it to be very good.

Cost was a brown and a pink for 75 minutes. there may be cheaper ones out there, but I think it was pretty worth it. I'll have to go visit sue and compare and also another one I found is here

Check it out.

 

[Mr Night]

Did Javanka allow any touching at all ?

 

[joeben7]

I'm not meaning to be picky, but it's spelled Jovanka, just in case anyone wants to do a search on her.

 

[TERRY S]

Sorry, no touching.

 

[heny]

pooner 144 .......did you try Sue only 1 brown or Zanzara 1 brown 1 green? I only want to try the best.

So is it Sue, Zanzara or Jovonka??? Have anyone try all three yet?

 

[Combat Commo hooah]

I did try Zanzara earlier last year. There was a review of it do a search.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Ironshaft .........read your review, great inform. Just wanted to find out if someone had visited all three and from his experience, which one is the best.

Pooner 144 said he will be visiting Sue soon.

 

[Dances with Buddha]

Those are very keen observations everest. One can achieve the same results with normal intercourse as well, with controlled breathing, body positions and vocalizations. For specific body positions, some of which are highly contorted, try the age-old standby, the Kama Sutra. Those guys had it right hundreds of years ago. I don't know about years of practice though. I think you can there sooner than that...

 

[Boris]

I appreciate these observations and find them helpfully thought-provoking. But isn't anything arising from our senses subjective, and potentially an illusion? Isn't our earthly life itself subjective, and perhaps an illusion? (Indeed, aren't most organized religions illusions, but that's too much of a tangent for eforum.xxx.)

Psychosomatic effects are illusions but are also real in many senses. I say that if you get the intense buzz, then that's good enough. Maybe it comes from the practitioner's real skills, or her skill in making you feel something unreal as real. Maybe it comes from your skilled breathing and mental discipline. Maybe it's a combination of two or more of these.

Whatever the cause, when you get the good effect, cherish it.

 

[I am not Burnette]

Good oberservations Herb. Certainly thought provoking. I guess that's why we stay primarily with one SP, or keep going back to them, because we get what we need in whatever sense of the word. Even though the satisfaction we get is usually quickly fleeting, or hallow which keeps us coming back for more.

 

[Mr.Pants!]

I now see your esoteric reference... Gotta get back to my Upanisads... Ah yes, right next to my Evans Wentz collection...

 

[emergency]

Do you have The Faery Faith in Celtic Cultures?

 

[SnowWhite]

What you're describing is also pretty much identical to Reichian breathing therapy. It definitely increases physical and mental energy.

Sometimes it triggers repressed memories, emotional flashbacks, release of repressed memories, lomg-hidden pain, etc. Reichian therapy probably costs a lot more than tantric FBSM (I haven't done it in 30 years, so I don't know the going rates), and you don't get any physical contact or a big O at the end.

In general, we don't pay enough attention to our breathing -- I know that I don't.