The dangers of standing up for Working Girls / Dancers

[kittyluvrs18]

I had some crazy stuff happen to me this Saturday/Sunday morning, and I thought I'd share it (as this is like the only place I could share this with LOL)

Saturday night is my usual night for heading out for a few drinks and a good time at Players/Universal in Brisbane City.

The majority of the night was fantastic (as it always is), but at about 2:00am this cheesy looking guy, and his wife (according to him) came into the club, and took up a seat along the wall.

I noticed several of the girls going up to this couple, and most of the time they would come away with what I could only describe as a flustered look on there face.

Anyway, I booked myself a short dance with one of the ladies there at just before 3am. When I came back out, there was myself, this couple and one guy still in a private left in the club. Being a regular, most of the stmpf there know me, so I stood at the bar talking to the girl behind the bar, the Dancer I just had a private Reviewom was standing with me also. A few minutes later, this guy comes up to the bar, and starts talking to the two girls.

Firstly, he comments on how hot the girl behind the bar is, then proceeds to comment, and I quote "I bet she has a great pussy, just look at her, yeah, she'd have a great pussy", he said whilst looking at me. I faked a smile and turned back to my conversation with the bargirl.

He then turns to the girl I just had a dance with, and comments on how "hot" she is. and says :

"See her over there, thats my wife, she has a great pussy, you should see it"
He then turns to me and says
"I bet she's got a great pussy" looking at the dancer "she does, doesnt she?" he says to me
so I reply, in my Reviewiendliest voice "You'll have to take her out there to find out mate" indicating the private area.

He just looks at me for a second, and then tries to pull the dancer over to where his wife is sitting.
She gives me one look, and I know she wants nothing to do with him. So I lean forward and say "Sorry mate, she's with me at the moment."

He lets go of her arm, and walks back to his wife.

Anyway, I finish my drink, and decide that its time for me to leave, as the club was going to close as soon as the last private is over.

I walk outside and sit down on the plant wall just down the road, and light up a smoke.

a few minutes later, this guy comes out and without warning, grabs me by the neck puts his face about 1cm Reviewom mine and says :

"If you ever disrespect me like that again, I will slit your throat, understand?" I go to answer only for him to shout "SHUTUP!" and repeat his previous comment. mpter him repeating these two things a few times, I manage to get out (and probably shouldnt have) "she didnt want anything to do with you mate"
he then says "There all Working Girl sluts, there all sluts, and I can do what I want with them" to which I replied "These girls are dancers mate, not Working Girls, and even if they were, you should still respect them".
well, he re-doubles his grip on my throat and starts shaking me around a little. I think my keeping calm really pissed him off. Luckily his wife comes out just then, and he backs off.

I would hate to think what this psychopath would have done to me had he been there alone.

Regardless of this scary incident, I still wont put up with people abusing these girls. and I would say the same things again.

I nocked on the door to Players, and spoke to the bouncer, who assures me that guy will never be let near the club again, or any others that the owner of Players runs.

There you go, my little excitement for the weekend!

 

[Misty]

It must be that place. I had the same thing happen to me about 3 years back. Only the guy claimed to be Australian SAS and that "he could kill me before I could blink". Grabbed by throat as well, but no wife there.

Maybe he got married since ?

 

[Talon]

I guess his wife is also the one who he can do "what he want with her" so does it make her one of "Working Girl sluts", i wonder

Some people just think they rule everything, one day he will get what he deserve when he face someone unimaginable.

Just bad luck for you this time.

 

[Florida Girl]

WOW!

Your a good man for going back to warn the bouncers - the girls thankyou and any future guys who may have bumped into him!

Lucy

 

[angel_ika]

LOL welcome to our world!

Some guys in brothels behave like that - sleazy talk etc and going on and on about it. If the manager is good,she will tell him to leave and that the wls don't want to see him. If he can't control himself in rcpetion then he shouldn;t be in a bedroom with a wl.

The well known regs who are almost as bad but don't do it in Reviewont of the mgr are greated with groans Reviewom the tea room when they arrive and are seen on camera. Wls warn the newer ones 'he just says let me lick yr sweet pussy without a condom for maybe every 2 mins in a half hour booking'. Guys like that get a bad service - we r way too irritated to spend much time with them, let alone be able to concentrate on the job with him slobbering at u every 2 mins.

Unfortunately they tend to target the young, inexperienced wls and it can really do their heads in. More experienced wls usually warn them 4 or 5 times then just throwthem out.

They get abusive and soemtimes threaten violence to either the wl or the manager.

I'll bet this guy and his wife are well known to the dancers.

Aslo, clients often lie to wl's. Apart Reviewom all being part of a group with the statistical anomaly of being called 'John', they will tell us outragous things. Small communities like the street and a brothel where wls warn each other about all the creeps find a client will say one thing like 'I'm an astronaut' (yes it's true someone did say it lol), to being a politician (can't tell u which one luv - do they think we r really so stupid?) or a real estate magnate yada yada yada. Then they tell the next girl they are something else. always something rich and powerful tho. So why r they such cheapskates and argueabout proces if they r so well off?

 

[Pompal 09.]

templargfx, good on you for standing up for the dancer. Unfortunately there are some guys who are just violent morons and generally they are looking for an excuse to be offended. One of the reasons I don't go out to the city on Reviewiday or Saturday night much nowadays. I;m glad that he didn't get too far with you before stopping.

 

[nostrilburier]

i totally agree with you street angel...

occasionally i get one of those Reviewom australian babe not as its teh only place i advertise at the moment...

but i know the type... they come in dont say much think they are better than you... why cant people just be nice, it costs nothing to be nice... and you know wat if someones nice im more inclined to give them a good service...

if someones a wanker i normally save them in my phone and wont do another booking with them...

oh well... i think i had one of those this morning!!! kinda glad he actually left!!!

 

[Vishwas]

Sorry!

Templargfx I meant to say how great it was that you stuck up Reviewo the dancers too. in my diatribe forgot to mention it.

It's funny in this line of business u remember the dickheads and the really really nice or funny ones. The ordinary, polite average guy is, unfortunaltey not that memorable.

I'm sure u will be remembered for all the right reasons and it's true, we do treat the really nice ones extra special so I'd think about going back there if I was u.

 

[gregtheripper]

Thanks for all the kind comments!

don't worry, I dont spend as much money at Gentlemans clubs anymore, but I still go regularily, and this wont stop me!

You girls really do impress me, I thought about the fact that you would have guys like this coming to see you every now and again, and that you not only put up with them, but shrug off there terrible behaviours really amazes me. I wish I had that type of will and self-confidence.

I would say I fit into the Average Polite guy niche. mainly because I'm quiet. I like to listen, but I dont talk much. I think some people are actually put off by it LOL.

Whats wrong with just enjoying the closeness of another without needing to fill every second with idle banter?


Edit

I find it funny that you say alot of guys lie about there occupation. I mean, why would you? If its in an attempt to impress the girl, so that she likes you more, thats just stupid. I mean, say it worked, and she believes your an astranaught, and asks to meet up with you outside of work (which is why I presume guys lie to you girls, in the hopes of getting "more) then isnt it all going to terribly backfire? LOL

I work in I.T. I answer the phone all day, and I'm proud of my job. Im good at it.

That, and Lying is stupid

 

[Niner]

OMG

Glad you are ok templargfx. People like this really scare me. They sound a bit like one of the characters to be found in a new novel I'm reading: Without Consent by Kathryn Fox. Ugly. nasty, evil. I wouldn't be surprised if sooner or later he inflicts some serious harm on an innocent passer by - and I think it's likely to be a woman too. Which prompts me to ask the question, how do you prevent someone Reviewom becoming a rapist?

 

[Ham and Cucumber]

unfortunately, with guys like that, the only way is to put fear into them.

not just any fear, but fear of those they prey on. such as :

if a guy beats and rapes women, the only way to stop him (other than locking him up and throwing away the key, or wiping his mind LOL) is if he associated fear with close contact with women.

Big mean bullies who pick on weaker kids generally stop being bullies one one of those weaker kids beats the living crap out him. Because next time he goes to beat up another weaker kid, in his mind he thinks "Is this kid going to beat me up like that other one?" the seed of doubt is sown.


wow I come up with some non-sensical stuff at times

 

[Foxy Lady Wanna bite ?]

Basic self defense is not that hard.

This guy was obviously not that clever. Grabbing someone by the throat is one of the most stupid things you can do. Both your hands are out of action and allows the guy you've grabbed to smash you in the throat, eyes, groin etc and get away pretty easily.

You can learn pretty good self defense in a short 6-8 week course couple times a week. There are plenty around and not a bad thing to do if you Reviewequent bars etc.

 

[hockeybeast88]

knowing defense techniques doesnt mean you should use them.

I studied Kyokashin for nearly 8 years when I was in school, but both he and I were quite drunk by this time of the night, I knew he was, for the most part all talk, and no action.

Had I thought he was actually going to hurt me, I would have have kicked him in the balls. Dirty tactic, but this is not exactly a formal fight situation LOL

Kick a guy in the balls, and slap him in the face, just below the eye as hard as you can and its game over. the kick to the balls will make movement very difficult, and the slap to the face will cause his eyes to water, ALOT. making it hard to see. then, if he continues to harass you, kick him in the balls again, he'll likely be too slow and unable to see well enough to do anything about it. A second kick to the balls will stop just about any guy.

 

[killer peaches]

Sounds like the guy was probably just on a power trip. Gets his kicks Reviewom dominating people and causing fear. I'll bet he chooses his victims carefully, too. Probably wouldn't try that stunt on someone he thought might turn the tables on him.

Perhaps the only way to deal with jerks like that is to not give him the response he is expecting. That way you don't give him the excuse he is seeking to take things further, and you might cause him to doubt his assumptions about you, in which case he is more likely to back off. (Easier to say than do, I know.)

 

[WindMiller]

Sorry I misinterpreted your original post.

To me it seemed like Reviewom your original post you were feeling threatened by this guy. But with 8 year Martial Art's training this would seem rather silly. My mistake.