The Other "L" Word (ladies)

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WAIT for the poll. LADIES ONLY

So, how often have you, might you do this role play for a client?:neutral:

[video=youtube;q96ylFiQK_I]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q96ylFiQK_I[/video]

 

[blood.pixie]

The Other "L" Word (ladies)

If I were an SP, I wouldn't want anything to do with playing like this. It seems it would greatly increase the risk of a guy getting in over his head, getting too involved, feeling he's closer than he is.

No one wants that, it's awkward at best and dangerous at worst.

 

[cindlurvarchie]

The Other "L" Word (ladies)

Shall we mark you down for a 5? 6? 7? or 8? (anonymous if you wish of course!):go:

 

[Aziz]

The Other "L" Word (ladies)

I went with 8, but could've gone 6 as well. It just seems like a bad idea. :

 

[JayJay]

The Other "L" Word (ladies)

It has to be done with someone you trust sillygirl.

 

[Aimz]

The Other "L" Word (ladies)

No, it's not a trust issue. It's an issue of playing with someone's feelings, I wouldn't want to do that.

 

[- lola is lovestoned x3]

The Other "L" Word (ladies)

I used to all the time.
Whats the big deal ? :shock:

 

[lduncan00]

The Other "L" Word (ladies)

I agree with SillyGirl. It happened to me with an sp and it was and has been no fun getting over being used.:grrrrrr: I am realizing the different kind of sp, ones who will play with your feelings for whatever they can take you for : and ones who will go for drinks with you, go dancing, meet for coffee and share a conversation, with out having to pay them.

 

[horsiie]

The Other "L" Word (ladies)

Funny, the only sp who replied so far said it best "what's the big deal"? It's only a big deal when someone forgets it's only a game.

A great SP will be able to determine what it is the customer wants, and then provide it. If the customer wants the illusion of the L word? Then she'll give it to him. If he wants the illusion of a FWB? She'll give it to him.

The ONLY time you can expect, or think that what she's telling you is true, is when she invites you over to meet her family. Until then? It's just a game and there's no harm in it....well, no more harm than the games people play outside of the biz anyways.....

What's that saying? Actions speak louder than words. If she demonstrates that she actually has feelings for you, then that's a whole 'nother ballgame.