The secrets of keeping your relationship exiting without going sour.

[John Dough]

Hi guys bored here again. What do you folks do to keep it alive.

Icebank, you cannot answer this thread. You already failed :slap:

 

[Pompal 09.]

Lol not yet Bubba.

 

[kylanburge]

Well I thought seeing sp would work.arty: It did for me.:666: He then got a girlfriend, which was no problem to me until he left. Hmmm......think I need a girlfriend now too.

 

[unibumps]

Hmmm what I did may not apply to anybody else lol
I had two big problems, one that I'm still working on... I need to become more confident and assertive. The other one was that I was boring. I had only been with two people before - a guy, and a girl - and my partner at the time had had a very ummm vibrant sex life before he met me. So I started developing a sex life of my own that sometimes involved him but most times didn't. Started with small dares and challenges, this being one of them haha, and has progressed to me becoming more interesting just by meeting and connecting to a variety of other people and doing naughty things with them.

 

[cherryblossoms]

I'm not qualified to answer... We are still in that "hot for each other" honeymoon stage of our relationship.

Seriously though, a relationship takes effort from both parties involved... Some of the things that have really helped us:

• Date night- Take a night out with your wife, at least once every couple weeks. Make a big deal about it.
• REMEMBERING RED LETTER DATES, And not just her B-day, V-day and Anniversary... (e.g. First date, first time having sex, first 3-way etc.) It makes her feel special.
• Be sexy with each other! Mrs. CG and I have a bit of a competition to see who can make the other hornier! We do this via text messaging/ e-mail/ phone calls, etc.
• ALWAYS make an effort to make sure she cums first. Seriously... if you make an effort to always make her cum first, you will BOTH be much happier! Trust me! :great:LOL
• DON'T be jealous! Seriously- this is a BIG relationship killer. I've met guys who won't let their wives go on girls nights out, or dress provocatively while they ARE out. IDIOTS! You are discouraging your sex partner from being sexy! Think about it! :roll:
• Be confident, but not arrogant.
• Don't smother her. (A point Sentry already made...) Time apart every now and again is a good thing.
• Help out around the house. (Especially if she also works full time) Isn't that right Ang! :tongue:
• To "Icebank's" point... If you lament the fact that she's put on a few pounds, make sure you are not in the same boat. In other words- look after yourself! What's good for the goose is also good for the gander.
• And above all... DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL THINGS!

Just my nickels worth...

 

[Steveman30]

Ang doesn't help around the house :shock:.

Shame on you :slap: .

 

[slw2992]

CG said it best :great:.

 

[shottayout]

Hey, how'd that slip by me?..........I ALWAYS help around the house....apparently I even have a maid's costume :neutral:

 

[Pompal 09.]

:gasp:

 

[john m]

YES that's it!!!.....I took a vid of myself last time I took a break from cleaning :???:

[video]http://mydisguises.com/2010/04/07/man-dancing-in-sexy-maid-costume/[/video]

 

[T Bryant]

Get back to work... BITCH! :grrrrrr:

 

[Bubblegum14]

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