This girl won't give out her number, instead wants to chat on FB, but I

[EnigMA]

don't have Facebook...Now what? She put on her profile "Don't give my number out to strangers, instead I would much rather chat on Facebook" but I don't have Facebook, and if I did, I wouldn't want some "stranger" looking at my personal info, so she's kind of contradicting herself there. What do I do? How are we supposed to chat if she won't give me her number? I'm confused!! lol.
@Serife - But there's an Instant message thing on a dating site, so why does she want to go on Facebook to talk? If she wanted to chat, just chat on the bloody dating site! If she's online to go on Facebook, then she'll be online for a chat on dating site. Please, I don't understand women sometimes! I understand you guys get weird/creepy messages, but It doesn't automatically mean I'm a creep. I have been very polite towards her, so..........

 

[SERiFE <3]

convince her to give her your number?

in time im sure she will, for now you could just make a facebook profile for yourself and when you earn her trust she'll give you her number.

 

[Amber Crespo]

go make a facebook and the great thing about face book is u can delete if u dont like

 

[LoveLiveLaugh]

Just get Facebook and try chatting to her... you won't know until you try.
She probably means she doesn't mind talking to you she just doesn't want to text you.

 

[Shimmerwaves]

Tell her to go on MSN or something.

 

[Countess Bathory]

Use MSN Messenger.
http://explore.live.com/windows-live-messenger?os=other

Giving out your number is risky, and I can understand her not wanting to give it out just yet. Yeah, you can get it changed, but most people do not want the hassle of changing their number from being harassed by someone they no longer want contact with.

If you pressure her into giving out her number, she may no longer want to speak to you. I know when I've been in that situation, I've stopped contact with people for being too pushy. It's annoying when you find out that the person isn't what you expected because they lied or upset you and have your number to pester you.

As for Facebook, you do not have to put ALL your information on there. It's totally different from giving out your number.

 

[JamieT]

You have to wonder why she doesn't want you to have her number

If you wanna talk to ger so bad just create a Facebook account you don't have to show all your info, you can have your settings so that only added friends can see it or no-one at all.