Thoughts from a new guy

[luckydog]

Long-time hobbyist, a long time lurker here, now a member.

Some very helpful reviews here and I send thanks to those who write them.

A couple of guys didn't think reviewing Astrid here was the thing to do cuz she is on CAF and qualifies as an escort I guess. So I am checking in with all of you.

It seems that most of us here want to find a great masseuse who gives a HE but many of us want the full meal deal if we can get it and in those cases, those are the same services as an escort, right? Astrid provides rates on par, perhaps on the high end, of the therapists we write about, but her rate is all inclusive, so for a lot of services she is more economical, plus she is sexy, built, has a great way about her, and her mouth does crazy things to the LG. But it appears I broke some kind of rule. The guys who didn't like my review were civil about it (thank you) and one said nice to see a new guy posting (thanks again), but why wouldn't you all want to hear about someone like Astrid?

Or Extreme April who gives one of the best massages I ever had plus a whole lot more?

I come here primarily for the reviews but to be honest I like to hear the stories too, even those where some lucky guy got an RMT to do a lot extra but won't say who. For me, that tells me that kinda thing can happen and keeps me on the look out.

Thanks for listening

 

[Bob the Knob]

In reply to your post Lucky, here is my take.

I mentioned in another post the thrill of the "unknown". While I partake in the full service arena of fantastic ladies like Astrid, I know what is offered. The high from fs escorts and adult massage parlours is a different feel for me. Repeat business there comes from meeting a lady who adds a special touch or experience that is far more than just a session. That results in repeating to get there again.

CAF is the primary source for these ladies.

The RMT side of things has a completely different "unknown".

Here we are visiting ladies who's professional designation does not allow open discussion or advertising similar to the adult massage parlours or escort service.

While we are hoping for a high likelihood of leaving happy, we are also in some cases just as turned on by the discreet tease of an Rmt, even though the ending may be a DIY or nothing but Blue Balls.

Along with that session are various stages of undress or under clothing touches, possible undressing and in some extreme but satisfying instances, a fs session which might come after several visits that have built up to a Full Meal Deal.

Tips vary from lady to lady and are usually determined by the end results of openness from the RMT
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We, or I should say I, post here for the RMT experience keeping my FS Escort and adult parlour reviews for CAF.

Perhaps this puts some additional light on the subject you have brought forth.

 

[luckydog]

Thanks Bob.. I am into all of what you wrote and you said it well.

I guess I don't really see why some people are troubled if I post about both here. But I do get your point. Thanks for responding.

 

[WasPOP]

Hey LuckyDog,

Welcome to the club.

My 2 cents to your question.. very simple: There is CAF for ladies like Astrid. Why duplicate?

Also, here is the YMMV thing. I have visited Astrid in her off Whyte basement, with all the shoes and the small bedroom. She is sexy (upper body) and nice, but I've seen much better ladies. That and other reasons were why I did not repeat with her. So I don't get it why you are advertising for her like this. I may be wrong.

Anyways, we normally don't review escort ladies here. But you are free to do it, no one can stop you. People may participate or just ignore.

Welcome again.

 

[DerekD]

I think the reason most ppl don't want escorts on this board are because we categorize them differently than massage therapists

I personally only use this board exclusively for massage providers.

BTW I did see Astrid before and I have to disagree with you. She had a nice personality and a nice rack, but her ass was flat and left a lot to be desired.

 

[welldunn66]

Hmmmmmm, well luckydog, for me it's the thrill and xxxcitement of getting extras when normally we are not supposed to due to professional designation. The RMT have a lively hood and studied to earn their designation. When we received extras, it feels like a bonus and I feel a bit high from it. It breaks up the monotony of life sometimes.
I have benefits that I can use so I can relax with a massage, or if my muscles are sore and tight, it can be relieved by trained RMT first and foremost. With an undraped massage, some teasing, and a sympathetic RMT willing to take care of LG (it's a muscle also) then I benefit from a very relaxing massage, a true "full body massage" therapy. It's not 100℅ a place allows undraped, or release, or some touching. When we do find an RMT that leaves us happy, we will provide her with repeat business and share here. This way she gets more volume, and it's just another way of thanking her for a job well done after we already tipped her.
There are a few establishments and RMTs that indeed benefited from this forum with the increased volume.
Deep down, I always want a massage with release to complete the session to feel complete.

With CAF ladies, not all of them are trained professionally to provide body massage relief since it's not their first priority. It's pleasure first. It's the different category of service and extras are guaranteed.
Like an animal, it's more fun to hunt for food because it's a different experience Everytime. But an animal caged up in a zoo being fed by the zookeeper on regularly scheduled feeding times is not as fun. We all got to eat and while I do appreciate being fed (CAF ladies), sometimes I want to hunt for my own food (RMT in the wild who do extras)

 

[luckydog]

Thanks everyone for taking the time to respond. I get the diff between CAF and here and our different motivations for going to both, so I will adjust accordingly. I appreciate too your civility. A lof of postings here seem to be less civil and more, well, unfriendly. I appreciate this kind of exchange. I have had great experiences, actually unbelievable times, with an RMT who asked me not to tell anyone, so I am going to assume no one wants to hear stories about experiences where the RMT's "name" cannotbe shared. Do I have that right?

Best
LD

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

Thanks everyone for taking the time to respond. I get the diff between CAF and here and our different motivations for going to both, so I will adjust accordingly. I appreciate too your civility. A lof of postings here seem to be less civil and more, well, unfriendly. I appreciate this kind of exchange. I have had great experiences, actually unbelievable times, with an RMT who asked me not to tell anyone, so I am going to assume no one wants to hear stories about experiences where the RMT's "name" cannotbe shared. Do I have that right?

Best
LD

Right on lucky dog. I am a regular of one such RMT who asked me not to post reviews of her. I don't know if she asked others not to review her...but a couple of people have...one just recently. Out of respect to her...I will not.

And welcome to the forum Lucky Dog...thank you for your contributions!!!!

 

[Old Fart]

I too like your explanation Bob but at the same time, if you like the 'thrill of the unknown' why do we have this board? Does it not ruin that thrill and make the 'unknown' a 'known' now?

Also, If I go to an RMT and one day she decides to make me happy, how wise is it to post here ? Could ruin her career.

As far as Astrid goes, I found her to have attitude which I did not find appealing to me.

 

[Bob the Knob]

My unknown is simply a first experience and how it is delivered to me. I know form discussions and also reviews each of us have rec'd various service that may not be given to every client.

So my thrill is to experience that unknown part. Yes reviews help make e decisions as to who I may choose and then the rest is up to the lady.

 

[Albertaman]

Agree with Bob about the thrill of 'the unknown', the possible YMMV part of the experience. If there is a promise, I usually go for a second visit before deciding on further repeats.

Reviews from other reliable posters are useful in excluding the really bad ones. Very bad service, filthy conditions, unpleasant appearance/hygiene, so on. There was one review in Calgary CAF that I recall (a classic) - was about to visit this independent when I came across a reliable review that stopped me before I headed out - mentioned that this lady had a parrot(s), and the inside of her apartment was covered in parrot poop. Vital info, good to know.

But the really good experiences (in the RMT + category) don't need to be reviewed in too much detail - some helpful nods (from dependable posters) in the right direction are enough. For this I am always thankful.