wow mj,
now this was a change from your previous posts! i believe you were looking to find a connection with your mom's relatives, no?
anyways, some girls will be willing some will not. ive seen it happen before. i think you will kinda get an idea by just talking to the girls who would be willing.
nw, this is not my area, but after you find a girl that seems willing you might want to be a little forward in how much she will participate because some of them will say yes, but will shy away in the room.
might want to go to go-go, look for a more wild one