You really think the opinion of somebody who has spent a whole two days in Tijuana is "valuable?" After two days you really think you know enough to analyze mongering in Tijuana?
About me:
Tijuana has been my place of residence for nearly 10 years. I speak fluent Spanish. (I learned Spanish when I lived in South America. I too have mongered abroad, but I don't fall into the trap of thinking that makes me an expert on places I've only visited for a few days.) I date local girls, have many local friends, and know the city reasonably well. (Unlike most Gringos I regularly visit places like the Zona Rio Cultural Center, the Altamira Cultural Center, the Tijuana Historical Society, etc.) I'm well known on the TJ mongering boards. Back in 2004 I wrote the Newbie Guide to Tijuana, which is still described by many as the most comprehensive mongering guide about TJ that has every been written. I could go on, but by now you should get the picture.
You're certainly entitled to your opinion, but, very honestly, some of what you posted is misleading, if not incorrect. (You don't know the difference between the verbs ir and irse yet you say you speak fluent Spanish. Etc. Etc. Etc.) In all honesty you don't know enough yet to have an informed opinion, much less to analyze TJ mongering.