to post or not to post...

[Kimberly Franks]

I'd like some advice:

Saw an MP for the first time this week. I'd been trying to see her for months but she was hopping from spa to spa. She had a 'hot' rep but didn't want any massageplanet.net posts so I took the plunge anyway.

Well... I feel like sharing my experience with her BUT...

Should I honor her desire for no posts OR post the review and let the chips fall (probably all on my head!) where they may??

 

[I demand a recount]

Negative or positive? If it positive I wonder why she does not want it..if negative I understand..if there is sensorship about reviews what the hell we are log in for?

 

[Sgt. Snarky]

Seems to me, that if you knew she wanted no posts you should honour that.

It's your honour we're talking about after all.

 

[cl0ckradi015]

In terms of a positive review - there are some MPA's that like to keep their clientelle list small, and like to have some control over the clients they see (e.g. I knew one MPA who worked at a very out-of-the-way spa and said she preferred it that way - not too many wackos coming in off the street). They do not necessarily want a flood of unknowns coming at them from a positive review on massageplanet.net. Also, sometimes a review mentions certain things that the MPA may feel comfortable doing with the poster/reviewer, but not with everyone. It becomes very stressful for the MPA when lots of guys come in demanding certain services that are really a YMMV thing.

There are plenty of examples on this board of both of these issues happening as a result of positive reviews.

 

[Vaughn.student]

Honour her desire and don't post.

 

[svengali88]

The final decision is obviously yours to make... but in the end it will tell us more about you than the actual MPA.

 

[LoNely GirL~]

you can still share and post your experience with anonymous MPA and we'll do the guessing!

 

[Riley]

Another true waste of bandwidth.

 

[Fallout]

sorry for not making it clear, I mean guess on your own, not to post your guess, that way still maintain the anonymosity of the MPA

 

[chee]

My take on this is if your experience is positive, honour her wishes, but if it was negative (and we might assume that was the reason she doesn't like reviews) you owe more to us than her, and should post a review. Why should everyone else have a bad time?

 

[mrsd]

Couldn't have said it any better myself. If you see this MPA again and she asks, you can hold your head high and say you kept your word. Talk about building a rapport....

 

[Caprikorn]

If you are planning on repeating with her, then I would suggest not to post anything. If a repeat is not on the horizon, then type away.

Hmmm, hard to tell who this person is ... a long shot this may be, but I predict the MPA works at SRM.

 

[kaaye]

Anybody with an IQ over ten could figure out who he was talking about.( I borrowed a few IQ points from a friend and I got it).

Probably 25% of the bandwidth in this forum is devoted to this person there is really no need to add anymore.

A better idea would be to do a review on say,mmmm, ANYBODY OTHER THAN HER.

 

[dontknowlawns]

Is it Brad from St. Marcs