Trying new therapists

[GucciGirl]

My wife and I discovered the pleasures of massge therapy early this year.  We have been to one spa three times and each time I have had the same therapist.  I thoroughly enjoy the massage I get from her, but I would also like to try other therapists at this spa.  I feel like I would be hurting her feelings by asking for someone else.We have been to two other spas and neither of them compared to what I get here, so on one hand I feel like I am getting the best there is and I shouldn't change.Thanks for any advise you have.Jim

 

[Vibe]

Hi Jim.  Thanks for the question.Have you seen a list of techniques that the other practitioners are using that you want to try?  If that is the case I would just be honest and at the end of your next appt say something along the lines, "Wow, I really enjoy your work!"  "I noticed there are several other therapists here that offer different things and I'd like to try them out too."  "Who would you recommend I try first?  Would you help me get scheduled to see them?"This acknowledges that you enjoy her work and that you are not going behind her back.  She can give you info on the people there which should help you choose who to see next.Hope this helps.

 

[Maureen]

Trying new therapists

My wife and I discovered the pleasures of massge therapy early this year.  We have been to one spa three times and each time I have had the same therapist.  I thoroughly enjoy the massage I get from her, but I would also like to try other therapists at this spa.  I feel like I would be hurting her feelings by asking for someone else.

We have been to two other spas and neither of them compared to what I get here, so on one hand I feel like I am getting the best there is and I shouldn't change.

Thanks for any advise you have.

Jim

I don't think that your therapist would have his/her feelings hurt, if you are interested in trying other people.  I guess some might, but I think the majority of us want to see that the client is just happy in their experience.

If you are concerned about the current therapists feelings however, you could take a small note with you, and in it express that you have been impressed with his/her services, that you never realized the benefits of massage, and, are going to be trying out others at the spa.

Or, you could just tell the therapist in person, if the spa is not too busy.

I have worked in a very large spa, a very small spa, and private practice.

I found that regularily, the front desk staff at the large spa I was at, had high turnover and rarely made sure the staff recieved their letters, tips or other items that may have been left for them.

Because of this, if you decide on a note because you can't speak to him/her in person, then specifically give it to the therapist, slide it under their door, or give it to another person who actually works at the spa and NOT the front desk. Especially if it is a large, fancy and high volume one.

But, as I said, we like for our clients to be happy, and if expirimenting is what makes you happy, there should be no hard feelings with that.... made known or not!  

Update:
I must have been typing while Intuitouch was, and I have to say... wonderful suggestion!!  

 

[Sim]

Trying new therapists

Have you seen a list of techniques that the other practitioners are using that you want to try?  If that is the case I would just be honest and at the end of your next appt say something along the lines, "Wow, I really enjoy your work!"  "I noticed there are several other therapists here that offer different things and I'd like to try them out too."  "Who would you recommend I try first?  Would you help me get scheduled to see them?" This acknowledges that you enjoy her work and that you are not going behind her back.  She can give you info on the people there which should help you choose who to see next.

I agree with Intuitouch.If a frequent client of mine decided to see other therapists, I would be curious to know why. Had I said something wrong?  Were they satisfied with my work?  Did they just want to try someone else?  Variety in therapists can be great.  One therapist might work one area well and another might work a different area well.  Different techniques, protocals, ect.  You shouldn't feel bad at all for wanting some variety.  

 

[goodcharacter]

Thank you all for your response.  I don't think she does the stone massage and I was thinking about trying that, so I will ask her for her recommendation.  I think she also trades massage with others, so I may ask her who she thinks is the best.Thanks againJim

 

[ehui]

As a client who loves getting a regular massage, I think it's important to try new therapists from time to time. No two therapists are alike. Each has their own 'style'. I think a massage should be catered to your needs, and those needs may change depending on what your activity level has been. Sometime you may need a relaxing massage, while at other times you might need more aggressive work in certain areas. That's why I will try someone new once in a while. I just want to find out what they do well, and obviously what they don't do well. No single therapist is good at everything. That's why I use two therapists on a regular basis, and occasionally work in a third one. One therapist I use is very good at stretching, while the other puts me to sleep. I think both of them are wonderful. I also use a third therapist when I really need just my calves worked on. She's especially good with the legs. I think finding a therapist or therapists that you mesh with is very important and the only way to find them is to experiment. Another reason to check out new ones is to have someone to go to if your regular therapist decides to get out the business, moves, or is sick. So I'm a believer in trying out new ones and that has no negative bearing on the ones I currently use.