Very upset why he will not voice chat?

[sean h]

Last month on may 6th I had a fight with my friend, prior to that we used to voice and video chat, he knows that i really prefer doing that instead of typing. But after 3.5 weeks of not talking to me or returning my txt, emails, he slowly added me back to twitter and facebook and skype, but now its has been almost two weeks that he will not voice chat with me, even after i ask if he has forgiven or is mad at me, he simply will not.

I feel really hurt, he is again warming up to my friendship by email and skype chat but he will not initiate voice or video. I think all because he wants me to suffer, knows how much it means to me and i have asked 4 times so far.

In all honesty I feel that he also has found other people to keep busy doing that with and I am no longer his buddy.

Should i stop asking him, should i slowly slide away and not go on skype, when i do that, he tweets me on twitter, or sends an email about some other thing. But really all i want is the old times when we used to voice chat everyday and talk about our business ( I was his mentor). He also after the fight just recently told me that he has this lady that he and her talks all night.

What is your suggestion? He lives in another country, our fight was horrible when i was there to visit him to the point that he drove me to a hotel and dropped me off and unfriended me from facebook.

It is a long story but i unfriendly him too from skype etc... but then i was stupid to miss him and now that we are back online he will not voice chat with me.

I feel if he does not initiate anything in the next month that i will slowly drop out of sight. It shows he wants to still punish me for what happened. Any help is appreciated.

 

[Monika]

Yikes, this sounds painful. I sort of understand when you think "I think all because he wants me to suffer, knows how much it means to me and i have asked 4 times so far. . ."

Deep breath. He does not actively want you to suffer, he is trying to avoid telling you something you don't really want to comprehend. He is just not that in to you.