Was it an obsession if you were briefly introduced to someone & after 4yrs youre

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still on their mind? I guess i made a good impression? From what i can recall a friend had introduced us but it was rather brief. Then a couple of weeks ago i was supposed to go on a blind date but cancelled for a number of reasons: my friend arranged it last minute and sprung it on me and i didnt feel comfortable especially since this person came from out-of-state and then i also have a crush with someone else. My crush shows interest in me occassionally but im not sure its hard to tell. I might be wrong with my readings. I had my fortune told recently and im hoping one of them could be my soulmate. But 4 yrs is rather long to be on someone's mind. Its either sweet or creepy. I dont know maybe i should just go w/ it? Maybe, maybe not?
And this person is willing to move from CA to chicago. I think my friend wants to see us together most of all, others caution me. IDK personally im not attracted. I think the idea of finding my soulmate is more appealing to me than who the person is.