Typical cop out, turn it back on those who don't choose you. If a person is not attracted to you, then first thing is look at yourself. There is something about you they are not attracted too. Be it looks, culture, attitude or even race. But it does not mean that they have a problem, they are just being true to themselves. If another person is diametrically opposed to us and does not fulfill or needs, then why be with them. its not about bashing women, just about choice, I hope all Western women have a great life, it just won't be with me. I wish them no ill will, but I am free to articulate why I reject them.
If a man for example wants a traditional wife, who cooks and cleans, raises the children (one of the toughest jobs on the planet for which parents both male and female don't get enough credit), a wife who is happy to let him be the dominant one etc. then he is entitled to want that.
Can he force a women into that, no he cannot, but if he finds a women that is willing to be what he wants, and he what she wants, then there is nothing wrong with it.
There is nothing wrong with wanting a subserviant wife or husband, finding it is the challenge.
J69