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[john m]

Friend of mine asked me this question the other day:

I have been with my partner for a year, but I can never make her cum. I can last until she cums while I am in her, but she has to do all the stuff - that is whether I am on top or bottom. If I start doing the act then I cum before her.

Its like she can cum at least 2 times while I am inside her, but as soon as I start thrusting or taking over then I just come.


Any tips/ideas/advice to give the dude?. I told him to masturbate before the deed and did not help.

 

[bellz_chick]

Get a cock ring. :gasp:

 

[Amanda W]

Brings up another question. How long do you guys last during sex and when were you able to control premature ejaculation. Without a lie I only mastered it in my late 20's.

 

[kicker]

Kegels ...
http://ca.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html

 

[King]

Where was this article when I was called 2 minute Joe. :bad:

 

[michelle bohannon]

It takes years of practice to be able to control when to come. Must thank all my College girls for helping me get through the hard times. :na:

 

[cigarley]

Does it really work?, anyone tried it?.

 

[jessica t]

Trying using a dildo/vibrator and work her up to the brink of her orgasm.

 

[Ardnaid Janus]

My understanding is that many women require manual stimulation along with penetration in order to achieve orgasm. I have never thought of it as a big deal. So long as she is satisfied, just go with the way things are. I mean, shit, they have been together a year, things must be working out well.

or another idea...

HE should talk to HER about it.

 

[Pompal 09.]

HUH! Fuck I hate those things! I'm not into THAT kinda pain! LOL!



No... Yes... (for kicks really...) My experience is- it just hurts... but maybe I'm doing it wrong... :???: :shock:

 

[alby]

Ask him if he's taken the time to really probe and explore her pussy, find out what makes it tick.

Proceed with caution, she might turn out to be an untapped squirter.

 

[Nancy L]

Along with the kegels, here is a masturbation exercise you can do to help get better control… kind of teaches you to control your excitement levels…
http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/ht/controlprematur.htm