What are some websites for a newbie goth?

[Mad as a Hatter - Rezi]

I'm trying to become goth... Okay, as I've found out, I've sort of always been goth, as far as the attitude. But now for the fun part: Fashion! And the music I've discovered I don't hate.

Anyway, I've already started reading a blog. The Ultimate Goth Guide. But I'm looking for a forum or something, so I can actually get my questions answered instead of questions I might ask. And I just don't trust people on yahoo answers to give me actual answers, because its too full of idiots. You know, the people who think goth means suicide. Any ideas?



BQ- I'm trying to work up to more goth through Emilie Autumn, because I LOVE her music, but I'm not really loving the classic goth music... They aren't terrible, just not something I want to listen to a lot. I also like a few songs from the Dresden Dolls (Backstabber is my favorite so far). What music can you suggest?
(I know Fashion might not be the right category, I just don't know where to put it)
Hot topic was suggested? Are you serious? It used to be goth, with music that scared me when I was little. Now it has a hello kitty section and sells Justin Bieber.