What can I do at home to get my sexual energy moving?

[tuhreza]

Hi all,

I've been told that I'm an attractive guy yet I'm not noticed a lot by women.

I want to feel my body more in general and I've been told that tight muscles will restrict this. So I can't feel my body and also been told there are certain things I can do to open up my sexual energy.

My PT did some release work on me and the muscle band that goes along the side of the leg from the hip to the knee apparently felt like a steel cable.

Could you please recommend something for me to do. I bought a tennis ball and have been working on my shoulders, biceps, legs and the spot where my groin connects to my leg (by putting the ball between my legs and crossing them over).

Your advice is greatly appreciated

Thanks!

 

[Jeff B]

What can I do at home to get my sexual energy moving?

I think this is something you should continue addressing with your PT or your MD rather than on an online forum...

 

[mrcarrotsayshi]

What can I do at home to get my sexual energy moving?

If you want to "feel your body more in general", receiving any kind of massage or bodywork can help... receiving regularly will have a cumulative effect. Also other embodied practices that build awareness such as yoga, tai chi, qi gong.

In terms of sexual energy, that's outside the realm of mainstream massage. You can take classes in tantric practice, also look into classes at http://www.thebodyelectricschool.com Depending on where you are, you can seek sessions with a Certified Sexological Bodyworker... there is a directory of practitioners at http://www.sexologicalbodywork.com/doku.php?id=directory