I usually feel a little stumped by this question. Almost every client who is new to massage asks it, and many who are massage veterans. I am working on a "knot" or a trigger point, or just a plain old sore muscle. Usually the shoulders, but it can be anywhere. The question varies. It could be "What IS that?" when I'm working on a knot, or a thickened or hardened area. But mainly they ask "What causes that?" or "Why is it like that?" or some variation on that.
Now, I feel like I know the answer. For one the answer varies from person to person. Frequently, almost always it has to do with stress. That feels like too short or simple an answer. I think the main answer is that it has to do with our emotions, our fight or flight response, and what area of the body it is stored in is highly dependent on the person and their personal history. I have done Hakomi and Psycho-Somatic Awareness type stuff, so I am totally into the emotions are stored in the body idea. I think this is too far out for many of my clients. I also think that these theories take too much explanation to be understandable. If I tell a client the short version, they may scoff. If I take the time it takes to really explain it all, they may get it. But I might as well refer them to take a Somatic Psychology course or something.
In your answers I'm interested in a couple things:
1. How do you answer this question?
2. How can I give the "emotions are stored in the body" schpeel in an introductory way that would be palatable for "mainstream" folks. And in a way that helps explain their knots in some way.
3. Is there a good passage in a book that explains the physical aspect in a short, simple form good for clients? I mostly subscribe to the emotional theory myself [even though I know the physical is valid/true], and so knowing the physical causes have sort of dropped away in my mind. Why do we have trigger points? Remind me.
Now, I feel like I know the answer. For one the answer varies from person to person. Frequently, almost always it has to do with stress. That feels like too short or simple an answer. I think the main answer is that it has to do with our emotions, our fight or flight response, and what area of the body it is stored in is highly dependent on the person and their personal history. I have done Hakomi and Psycho-Somatic Awareness type stuff, so I am totally into the emotions are stored in the body idea. I think this is too far out for many of my clients. I also think that these theories take too much explanation to be understandable. If I tell a client the short version, they may scoff. If I take the time it takes to really explain it all, they may get it. But I might as well refer them to take a Somatic Psychology course or something.
In your answers I'm interested in a couple things:
1. How do you answer this question?
2. How can I give the "emotions are stored in the body" schpeel in an introductory way that would be palatable for "mainstream" folks. And in a way that helps explain their knots in some way.
3. Is there a good passage in a book that explains the physical aspect in a short, simple form good for clients? I mostly subscribe to the emotional theory myself [even though I know the physical is valid/true], and so knowing the physical causes have sort of dropped away in my mind. Why do we have trigger points? Remind me.