What does it mean when a guy introduces you to his family?

[Sea]

so. I like this guy. I'm pretty sure he likes me back, and we flirt all the time. The usual stuff, messing around, always together when we're with our group of friends. Everyone knows that there is something going on, and i think were that couple that everyone is just waiting to get together. Anyways, we've been trying to go surf together for the first time for weeks. We decided to go yesterday, but he called me and said that his whole family was going. I expected him to say that it was going to be a family thing and that we would go another day. I had never met anyone from his family except for his little brother. But, he invited me along. I went to his house for this first time and met his parents and brothers. we hung out a bit, and then went out and surfed while his family hung out on the beach. We all went and ate after. I didn't really talk to his family because they were all speaking spanish, but I talked to his dad a bit. I talked to my guy a bunch, in the car there and back, and it was a great day. The first time we hung out with out any of our other friends there. I really felt like his girlfriend being introduced to the fam. I know that none of our friends from the group have been introduced to the family, not even any of the guys. I just want to know what you guys think. Is this big step, or is it not really? I was just curious, because I thought that I would never really hang out at his house, or with his family.
blah blah blah I know. I am a typical teenage girl. thanks

 

[Rebecca Gonzalez]

I think that means that he truly likes you and that by introducing you to his parents, he wanted to see if his parents felt the same way about you! In a way it is a big step because this could lead you to getting into a relationship with him

 

[Ginger]

from my experiences sometimes it is a big step and sometimes it isn't it all depends on what he considers you as.

 

[Jeffrey R]

maybe he's just showing you off to his old man

 

[Asian that loves latinas]

He really likes you. If he flirts and invites you to the family, then he really likes you. He is just like a man who wants to be with you but he won't ask you out. It probably means that his family is comfortable for him instead of movies.

 

[xoxo_mo_813]

Wow!!! That's a big step. Maybe he's not really great with girls and is shy to ask you out so he's definitely comfortable enough to INTRODUCE you to his family! if NONE of his friends have met his family before, you obviously mean quite a lot to him. and i'm pretty sure only boyfriend and girlfriends introduce each other to family, so he might be planning to ask you out quite soon. congrats!!!!!

 

[judgebill]

Obviously he felt comfortable having you join with the family for the beach outing. So he approves of you, was also asking his family if they approve of you. He apparently is close with the family and wanted to know if you would fit in...and it sounds like you did. So what it looks like is you have a fellow who looks upon you as a pretty important person in his life. If that's what you want, that's what you have.

 

[Mark Jones]

means he wants to lay u

 

[Alfonse]

Hispanics are usually very family orientated so this may be their culture. Most people in the US, assuming that you are in the US, tend not to be very close family wise. Hispanics are a culture that many times are.

Meeting his family is a positive sign I would think that it would be a very good sign. He would not introduce you if he did not care for you, so..

Talk with him. Or, just take things slow and see what happens. Go slow with any relationship. Ask him in a nice way and just see how he responds. I think you would be okay to ask in a very nice way what he thinks of you. His response will probably let you know his feelings.