What is/isn't off limits with an MPA?

[Cat_possum]

I'm pretty new to this and was wondering what is or isn't off limits regarding MPA's. I know you can touch their tits and most of their body, but what about their kitty's. Are they usually in play or is it like a Strip Club, where you can usually touch from the waist up only? I know it may very from place to place, but what is the general rule? I'd feel kind of akward asking "Can a touch your pussy?" Am looking to go to a more reputable message place like SRM or Plats. Thanks.

 

[Hawaiian_Kine]

Don't be so quick to assume, lest some MPA rips your balls off.

Keep your hands to yourself unless and until she invites you to explore. Build a rapport with the MPA and you'll discover where her individual limits are. And always remember her limits might not be the same as the next MPA you see, there is no definitive rule that applies across the board.

Happy hobbying!

 

[rdcds6520]

Ditto Bloblaw.

They are all different and certainly don't go in expecting the moon on your 1st visit.

I have had everything from the lady moving far away if my hand brushed her calves to full service at massage places in Toronto. You just have to be patient and willing to make repeated visits.

 

[blizz123]

Pay the price, get the extras... Forget the build rapport thing to touch.... you dont need 10 visits to make your self out to be a good guy to touch some mpa's tit. If you cant touch, dont tip, move on to next storefront..... Forget this build rappoort stuff., unless your a sucker or complete moron who needs make himself feel better for going to a mpa, the girls are there for one reason, to make money... not give massages.

 

[adam/penny]

Hey genius: Not all places offer extras.

 

[La vida es buena!]

I think this is the 3rd (or 4th) time I have seen this question or a variation thereof in the past 3 months. Is there a sudden influx of MP newbies?

During my 3 "research" visits to MP's, I actually asked what is permissible and I think every time the MPA jumped to the wrong conclusion that I was undercover. Why would LE even care what goes on between consenting adults behind closed doors?

 

[Free to be.]

I'm not that experienced with MPA's but I always start off in "neutral" territory with dancers and then slowly and gently move towards my objective. It has happened on more than one occasion when the dancer grabbed my hand and put it right on top of the intended target because I was moving too slow.

 

[RockTheCasbah]

Remember the golden rule. It is not what you want, it is not what the MPA wants, it is what the LAW allows. The LAW couldn't give a rat's ass what you two consenting adults agree to do, the LAW decides, not you and not her. The LAW controls our bodies.

 

[Brenda Yim]

I will answer your question with a quote from a Zen Buddhist.

"Everything and nothing."

 

[murali]

They probably already know that we are all deprived crazed perverts but some are more civilized than others.

 

[Farrah]

Im gonna add some MPA-ness to your list






Takes one to know one!!

 

[supertop]

she probably is. People always have money to play.

 

[Clever nickname]

My fave always allows me to give her a firm handshake.

 

[Emmi]

I have a line with MPAs which I always use the first time I see one. I say, "If I do anything you don't like, tell me and I will stop. On the other hand if I do something you like, tell me and I will keep on doing it." That invariably gets a smile, often a laugh, occasionally an explicit don't do this that or the other, but more often the session then just proceeds without the MPA having set any limits and with me feeling able to go forward doing what ever I want until and unless halted.

Mind you, the comment I most often get from MPAs is that they like me as a client because I am a gentleman who does not push the limits, which makes me wonder if I am too "gentlemanly". Hmmm!

 

[Dennisse]

Almost all of them let you touch their kittys on the outside.

 

[Kara]

There are several solid answers so far, but the real answer is that it all depends. One visit can be completely different than another, even with the same girl.
Touching the boobs and snapper are really kind of high schoolish don't you think? You can close your eyes and twist your own nipple and it feels just like hers.
Go for some creative kink that doesn't violate her space or the law. Have her take her panties off and stuff them in your mouth. Have her spit on your cock or in your face. I think that her spitting in my mouth is very close to DFKing and even more exciting.
Looking but not touching goes a long way. Ask her if she can make her anus wink. Ask her to prove that her snapper is all pink inside - but just look.
Ask her to tell you in detail about her last lesbian experience, or about her last gangbang. Or about any sex scene you want to hear about. The better MPA's all have the stories right on the tip of their tongue.
My whole point is that there is a lot more available than just groping your local MPA, all well within standard MP limits and the law.
My personal preference is that I like to lick their nylons, but I rarely get to do it on the first visit.

 

[sirima b]

Now THATS what Im talkin' about!!! I love an open-minded client! Cheers to you!

 

[and improved!]

keep going, im almost there.