What is the best city/state for an Technology major and Massage Therapist...

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...to be successful? My fiance and I are college students determined to be outrageously successful in our chosen career paths. I am a technology student majoring in Network Security (technology field) and he is a massage therapy major. We are trying to settle on a state were we would both be happy AND successful in our careers. We live in Virginia now but here is the problem:

I know for a fact that Northern Virginia, Maryland, West Virginia, and the DC area are the places with some of the BEST opportunities for people in the technology field. Not only can I make really good money, but I have a great chance of learning tons and being successful in the IT industry. HOWEVER, I accidentely fell in love and now I have to think about someone else instead of my own needs as well. My fiance will obviously NOT be able to take as full of an advantage in his industry because Virginia doesn't have an abundance of massage opportunities, especially the areas up North where I would do so well in the technology field. He has his heart set on Florida, and while I know the state has many tech opportunities as well as opportunities for massage, I don't want to go to Florida and refuse to live there again.

Can anyone PLEASE help and give me advice on where we both could go in this country (minus Hawaii) where we both can be happy, satisfied, and the most successful in our careers???
Thank you for any input!!!