.... that you aren't going to get much help with a post like this.
Ya' gotta consider how this looks. You joined yesterday, and your first post is today, asking for potentially sensitive info.
Here are a couple of "public" links that may help you out:
http://www.massageplanet.net/showthread.php?t=53317
http://utopiaguide.com/forums/showthread.php?p=731690
http://members.multimania.co.uk/ampdude/newpage.html
Realize that the Upstate AMP situation is very bad right now. Lots of tension, worry, and LE hassle. Parlor count is waaaaay down, girls are very careful and very skittish. Risk of disappointment is high. Do not expect that your experience is likely to be anything like what is stated in these "guides" above! Things have changed dramatically in this area. And not for the better.
You are better off, IMHO, in making an appointment with someone like one of these girls:
http://www.massageplanet.net/providers.php?do=view&id=66395
http://www.massageplanet.net/showthread.php?t=337136
Both are well reviewed here. Be nice, courteous, and professional. And then post a damn review! Don't just be a lurker!