What would you do if you got a BG preggers on a one night stand on a 2 week holiday?

[Shilongo]

Following on from another thread...

What would you do if you got a BG preggers on a one night stand on a 2 week holiday?

Easy to say you would be a man about it and do your duty but she IS 10,000 miles away and it would be easier if you just pretended it didn't happen.

So what would you do in this situation...try be as honest as you can!.

 

[dyslexic dog]

Buy a new SIM card pretty quickly!

 

[Navy ACC]

Get Tested for HIV.

 

[K T]

Same as you would do if you got a girl pregnant in your own country... thats assuming you have a conscience of course.... :

 

[spunk ransom <3]

I don't know what I would do.. until it happens... then I'll see what my brain says then... h:

 

[debijs]

Maybe paying for a liason involves a certain lack of responsibility.

 

[INDIAN]

Why is that?

 

[LMG]

I'm guessing that the cash transaction transfers the responsibility of contraception to the person getting paid. Even in western society the responsibility has been traditionally the womens. Because they have to look after their own welfare, and cannot rely on the men to do it for them.

 

[Victoria]

I think for my own conscience I would have to deal with it as I should have done at home. I could not be in Sweden thinking about my child (even if I try to not think about it I would. Its a piece of me) and knowing that his/her mother is a prostitute who has to work on the street/bar for money to food and that there is no father involved.

Its a nightmare but I dont see any other options.

The emergency exit would be to just cut all the communication and go home but I think that I could not stand with myself if I did that.

But as they say "up to you".

 

[Roxie]

what level of proof would be acceptable?

one night among many - and I'm trying not to use the word 'hard' here - so, it would be 'difficult' to isolate one night, after all she is a BG, one business transaction among many . . .

 

[Me.]

Blood test. Sorted.

 

[Valentina R]

ok...lets presume that you are 100% sure that you are the father.

 

[ATHEIST IS TRUTH!]

I think blood test only proves probability, it rules out those with non-matching blood type, so you may be able to prove you 'are not' the father, but there is much better testing available now - I have a friend who had to go as far as a dna test at huge cost to disprove paternity.
This topic is one I'm mildly interested in, having been 'accused' once in the past and had the perfect 'out' - yes I had 'that' minor operation many years ago. Stopped proceedings instantly but did make me consider what i'd have done if the child was proven to be mine.
There never was one as it turned out (surprise!)

 

[Pompal 09.]

I'd get my IQ tested.

 

[Matt hardy Brand]

if all did happen as in the very unlikely scenario that I didn't use a condom and it could be proven it was my child...I'd pay for an abortion

 

[Cheryl H]

I would seek out the doctor who performed my vasectomy and rip his fcuking head off.

 

[60 Million Voted Me]

what about if she refused an abortion because she thought since you were a farang living there, you'd take care of her forever. would you 'take care she' then? just curious. i have no clue what i would do, no clue at all. couldn't say i would run but i couldn't say that i'd not run either.

 

[sligoman]

You pass that one back to her. You offer her the guidance and support to sort out a fairly simple medical procedure, and explain very clearly that it is the only option and if she won't terminate she is on her own.

I don't know what I would do either, and hope I never find out.

 

[Socks33]

If you can get your head around abandoning your offspring it's her problem.
The woman needs to be the one taking birth control pills or similar.
I wouldn't wear a condom if there was no STD's out there.
I had a vasectomy 20 years ago, I always wanted some lady to suggest I'll be a dad. It never happened.

 

[This is NOT a Brothel]

what he said....only give her the one option...Thais react better to that