When the SP is feeling bad

[DorienG]

I was considering a poll, then figured comments would be better, at least for starters.

SP is booked. Then some hours before, she is feeling physically, emotionally, or mentally bad (maybe her tummy is sore, maybe her cat died:frown:- whatever).
She COULD go through the motions, but she knows it will be waaay below her usual quality (whatever that may be).

What do YOU (client) want her to do?

Some things to consider:

FIRST time meeting?
Booking is 1 hour? 2 hours? Extended?
Long time fav SP?
......:go:

 

[Sunitha T]

I say, she should not see the client at all if she doesn't feel good.

 

[roar_y {~[GCH]~}]

I'd want her to cancel. Probably most problematic if it's a second or third time meeting, as canceling due to not feeling well can sometimes really mean she just decided she didn't want to see me after all, and so might not bother trying to see her again at another time. Wouldn't really suspect that for a first meeting (what could it have come from?) and I tend to trust long time faves to have good reasons for cancellations.

 

[drasago]

I would much prefer the agency call me and cancel the session regardless if I have even pulled up into the incall. I can't afford to hobby often so a bad session for me is truly heart breaking. I would be pulling out the Kleenex but not for the right reason!

 

[puff]

Tough call, the obvious call is to cancel cause neither of us will have a good time. Then there are those guys that plan it, book time off work or make excuses to the wifey and get burned. No winners here, the sp should always make the right call. What is good for her is what counts.

 

[Tia]

Cancel, there is always plan B.

 

[Corrie]

Canceling the session is best way to go.

 

[Lewis]

Come on,say it, SAY IT- "I am a lap...":

Been there many times.

 

[madcowbutcher]

Some pooners take it for granted and forget to plan ahead. Many agencies and Independents now available with an hour or two notice.

 

[Kate]

Been there with an sp, I wish she had cancel.

 

[cameronissim...]

Also if they are a bit drunk then Cancel. I am just saying what I like.

 

[#2 was a miscarriage]

Cancel with as much notice as possible, so I could book someone else.

 

[Beautiful Disaster]

been there done that and have a lighter pocket for it.

Sorry, I know we all have a tendency to go to work when we're not feeling up to it but at the rates we're paying, a mediocre appointment is not something we should put up with.

Olayda: I have a few ladies I see and have become somewhat close to. If they needed some TLC I'd have no problem them coming over, me tucking them in (not up lol), making them soup and generally taking care of them. But NOT on the clock. As much as I don't mind playing nursemaid I won't pay for the priviledge though....

 

[Pompal 09.]

...and more than kind.:great:

As noted above, Olayda and I are Lap Beasts but I need to watch pennies now, much to my regret.
In my wealthy days, the Sugar Daddy allowance would be adjusted for sick time at 50% if my darlin's could/would visit, even if they were 'hors de combat':.

Pretty clear from above that good/fair communication is the key (just like all personal or business relationships).

For a first timer, cancelling is best (though I would have missed Tricia :neutral
For regulars, tell me whats wrong, and I still might offer the booking.

 

[Zammo]

I recall the board had at me when I posted the very topic: I was canceling a date because I was in poor shape and new I'd be "just going through the motions".

There were a few who felt I should have gone to the date anyway. At the end of the day, what matters is that if I don't want to be there - I'm not going to be. If I'm in rough shape in any way, I will take care of myself and would expect that anyone who cared about me as a human being would want me to do that. I can't stand the idea of doing a date as slave labour - doing it though I don't want to because I have no other choice.

I'd rather loose the person then be guilted into a session when I'm not well.

 

[lauraaa <3]

IMO you did the right thing to cancel the date Lauren

 

[zendall]

aaaaaaaaaaaaawwww aren't you the cutest

i would cancel and if offered to come take care of me i would thank the guy but say no i wouldn't want to make him sick