This reply to Concerndโs post. Actually this is not the first time I saw people fall in bad situation like Concerned. Even for those local guys, they also have the similar case. In china (actually I mean in shanghai), you should keep in mind that the golden rules are:
1. If you want go somewhere to eat or drink with girl. Pick up the place yourself. If the girl asks you go some restaurant or bar, 80% the chance she is tricking you. If you suggest some place to eat or drink, then the girl try to excuse not go there, 100% trickster! In Chinese there is new item called (้ฅญๆ or ้
ๆ).
2. Almost all decent bar or restaurant always have list of price for everything they offer. Always check the manual first before you order. In my experience, if any drink over $$$$, I will call police.
3. If you want have sex action with the girl wherever you meet. Always bring her to your place. Some of girl may offer the love place, but in 50% of chance you will fall in trick even local people.
4. If in case of you already fall in the trick, such as you find you have to pay unreasonable price on drink. Call police (dial 110)! If you already paid, keep the receipt, and then call the police. In 90% of case, you will win the case.
5. In some of BBS, you may meet a situation looks like LE burst. Calm down!!! It still may be just trickster. They pretend as a LE just want you $$$. You have right to ask see their badge.
If you can handle all those bad situations, Shanghai is really fun place in the world. I will come back to shanghai next month. I can not wait for all of those fun things there.