When your boyfriend wont introduce you to his kids?

[picazo77]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, we both have children from previous relationship, I welcomed him to my home and he officially met my 3 kids, which made me feel better.
But he wont bring me around his kids and family members, parents etc.
His excuses are he is preparing his kids for new girlfriend(me)
I feel very bad, Im thinking of breaking up with him. I love him very much and he treats me very good, but keeping me away from his family makes me jump into conclusions. Please Help with suggestions, thank you and God bless all !

 

[cassiex]

a friend of my went through the exact same thing, she had to wait over a year to meet his family, the reason hes probably not introducing you is because hes scared that you wont like his family or he wants to make sure hes going to be with you long term before he lets his kids meet you, don't be worried by this though alot of people feel this way it doesn't mean hes doubting you its just that hes worried his kids wont like it if you meet them then leave, it will all work out okay if he's the right person you just have to be patient, my friend is really happy now and engaged

 

[The Wife]

HA HA HA HA HA HA... I am sorry I am laughing but come on girl... really? in 3 years you haven't met ANYONE in his life? not his family.... not his kids... not his friends... please tell me you're just awfully trusting and a little naive... because we all know why if you don't.

Break up with him. Seriously. Do yourself and his "family" a favor. Next time, be pickier.

 

[My Puppet Hands]

I think he is just insecure about how his family will react. Keep asking him and if he gets pestered by this keep saying what you think and that you really want this and how him withholding hurts you. In a sense if you never meet his side there is no point and after three years there needs to be a point.

 

[damn_pumpkin08]

I went through a relationship like this. except i didn't have kids but he did... turns out the guy was a cheater! with like 3 other girls! Dump him and move on. I didn't waste 3 years, I only wasted one, but still. Dump his ass. You'll be better for it and you won't be stressing as much. if he really loved you, he'd introduce you to his family by now.