Why guys who married BF are still hooked here (avid posters)

[Possibly Right]

1. Why guys who married BG or are in varying seforum.xxxes of being married to a BG or self-proclaimed deep in love with BG are still hooked to these forums e.g. avid posters even on hooking posts?

Slightly related cases also come to mind

2. Some say one can take BG out of bar but cant take bar out of BG

3. Monger may not be in the bar (not allowed, cant afford, or other reasons) but can not take BG/bars/wh****g out of mongers.

Not questioning nor judging, just trying to understand the reasons out of curiosity. Who knows few years down the track newbies might find themselves in similar place, please enlighten.

 

[Sissy Smurf]

Same reasons you are hooked probably. Which part of the universe are you from? Strange you joined over 2 years ago yet only started posting 5 days ago...what took you so long?

 

[Agent Shnully]

Mate, I am catching up, paying membership dues by having benefited by it.............as for my reason, I am missing the place I am sure most people do as soon as they leave LOS.

 

[DeeGirl95 literate]

Can't see the connection between having a TG (I"m sure you didn't mean BF) GFLT/partner/wife and continuing to post on the Forum as strange.
Why would they be mutually exclusive?

Mostly our partners trust us (as long as we come home) to go out, have fun, and then we may or may not report things of interest to other BMs.
Those of us who live here may have a different viewpoint on things than the touring visitors, no matter how frequently they visit.

Besides a lot of the sub-forums have little of the social aspect in their content.

Maybe we feel we are helping to enlighten - rather than rehashing other peoples opinions from stale threads and agreeing with them - I hardly see that as "paying your dues"...........

 

[blues breaker]

Forum is a way of socializing.. That isnt done while drinking.. EG it keeps me out of a bar (sometimes).

 

[Lynzeigh]

I've just sparked a ciggie up 2595.3 miles away......hope that's OK.........Cough!

So it's much safer for non-smokers. es:

 

[Kathleen]

Hypothetically if I met my partner at a Country Club while playing golf..............must I then stop going there because we are in a relationship?

This forum is like a social network for like/minded and some not so like/minded........pretty simple really

 

[Mirah]

I agree with what you are saying, there are also many BM's that are married slash in relationships with non BG TG's (sounds like a english sports car)

Also the other aspect is shared experience of LOS mongering or otherwise.
If you have never been and most peoplw i know in OZ have not how do you relate and share stories of LOS? You can not!!

How many BG's would you need to sleep with to be considered a mongerer anyway???

 

[frmthesouthgrl]

All right guys, thanks for the responses. Most of them make sense and I agree.

 

[SNFcj (Back on my grind)]

lol.....that was other thread mate..

 

[His.Dirty.Little.Secret]

Personally i think it is anyone who purposefully goes to LOS for the P4P...and maybe you can kid youself by saying that number 1 reason is beaches etc etc but even if p4p is any of your reasons you are a mongerer.

 

[Josh H]

I thought there might be a magic number you had to reach or something like that or maybe a yearly quota.555

I am out of the p4p game anyway i am rather attached to my ballls i really would not want to piss off mrs W 55555

 

[ELEGANTLY WASTED]

OK then by that definition I am a thai food gourmet, surfer, scuba diver, motor bike rider, car driver, golfer, swimmer, drinker, part time smoker, buddah enthusiast, thai linguist, cinema goer, shopper, social intercourse devotee, beach walker, BM, crossword puzzle enthusiast, cook, cleaner, writer, eyeglass collector, nightclub goer,hawaaian shirt collector, investor, landlord, architect, designer and monger etc etc etc....all rolled into one

sounds a bit like me...why should anyone be defined by only one thing they enjoy in their life

 

[Cassandra G]

Personally I agree with that. First time I went, I sure had "thai food gourmet, surfer, scuba diver, motor bike rider, car driver, golfer, swimmer, drinker, part time smoker, buddah enthusiast, thai linguist, cinema goer, shopper, social intercourse devotee, beach walker, BM, crossword puzzle enthusiast, cook, cleaner, writer, eyeglass collector, nightclub goer,hawaaian shirt collector, investor, landlord, architect, designer and monger etc etc etc" in mind, but would have gone elsewhere if there wasn't P4P in LOS.

 

[headshotbobby]

really.....you had 90% of all the things I do here in mind before you came to LOS...how many of them did you achieve


Do you go with P4P women when you go back to Sweden...do you only go on holidays with P4P in mind....if the answer is yes to those questions maybe part of you is a monger but surely it is not the only thing that defines you as a human being.....that is the point I am making with that list

honestly its up to each person to value what they see in themselves....if you think it fits and you are happy with the label UP2U.....but I don't see why everyone should be judged by some peoples extremely limited and judgemental notion of just what is a "monger" and accept having what many would see as a perjorative label being slapped on them by someone who knows virtually nothing about them other than seeing them walk down the street hand in hand with a TG

 

[Ron.Chae]

the best advice I was ever given was "leave the morals up to the person you are sleeping with."

to the why to married guys stay on here after being married. I would think it's the same as asking why married guys still have single friends after they get married. I think some people come here make friends and are here for more then to just find out what the going rate is.

 

[Boyba Power!]

pretty much agree with that, musty.

to the op, maybe because they have something in common and wish to help out others with similar thoughts or advice.
also there are alot of people on here who actually know each other, but live in different parts of the world, so it's an easy place to catch up.

 

[mySQL Newbie]

Hope it wasn't in a public toilet 555!

 

[Cap.n1Eye]

Yes'
birds of a feather, flock together'

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hi My name is Mustard, I'm 35, I could stand to lose 70lbs, and I think Camo and plaid look good together, I spend as much time as I can trolling the bars in Thailand. I often frequent prostitutes. I harbor feeling of resentment and distrust of women, due to my past relationships. I have poor social skills, especially when it come to talking to women. I my have an undiagnosed mental disorder.


did I cover them all?