why wont my boyfriend introduce me to his parents.?

[confusedlady.]

We have known eachother 8 years & have been exclusive and living together for 2 years
But he keeps avoiding introducing me to his parents. He even went as far as to tell his dad
He was going to bring me over but that was months ago now..what is the problem.

 

[Tiffany Y]

Well, maybe it's because he knows that his mom and dad will embaress him or it's because that he thinks his parents won't like you. This might be because he loves you and it's for your own good.

 

[boston92]

well it may be that he's never introduced someone to his parents and it can be very scary, but also very serious and it's not that he doesn't think of you as the person to settle down with, but it's more about time and when he feels comfortable about it. Good Luck!

 

[Ally]

maybe he is having problems with his parents or something. I think that there must be a reason.

Tell him that it is really important to you, and that if he can't introduce you to his parents, ask that he at least tell you why.

 

[bahena006]

we can't figure out the problem.. ask him

good luck :]

 

[James J]

You need to ask him, not us.

 

[mac A]

Some of the main reasons why men don't take their girl home has a lot to do with how much they value their parents opinions.

Sometimes a parent with a strong opinion can ruin a relationship, maybe your boyfriend is trying to keep that from happening.

If he didn't value his parent's opinions as strongly, he probably would have taken you there, and not care what anyone would think.

 

[lil miss awsomeness]

Hes Nervous To Do so Cuz Thats Wat my Best friend that i consider ZMy boyfriend I never met His Mum Till The Middle Of the school Year and ive know him for 4 years !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Chine']

Maybe he is embarrass of you.


Or his parents doesnt approve.

 

[Michael M]

Because he wants to keep his options open.

If he introduces you to his parents there will be questions. They may like you and pressure him, they may expect him to commit, etc.

 

[Jenny]

maybe he thinks his parents are weird

 

[Wes]

he is ashamed of his parents or something