because we realize that hey, we just got laid, wish I was awake for that!
I think that is something that is missing in today's society: the fact that so many still believe that women have it, men want it. EOS. That anytime before, during or months afterwards, if a woman decides that she might NOT have wanted it, the guy raped or assaulted her.
For the record: when you're asleep, you're considered in a state of unconsciousness (by the medical profession so the law stands).
This is a BULLSHIT ruling mainly because it was brought about only because society gave the woman the ammunition she required to use against her ex in a custody battle. What's next? Throwing a guy in jail for THINKING about having sex with a woman? Jesus...what's the world coming to.....
Just remember guys: now, anytime you have sex with a woman, up to 7 yrs later you can be arrested and found guilty of sexual assault. Doesn't matter if she said yes, doesn't matter if she's your wife, doesn't matter if you paid for it.
As for that story about the guy who had the drunk chick come into his room? What are we supposed to do, carry around breathalizers now???
CG: not that you may ever encounter this (I hope you don't) but you better keep a release form next to your bed listing all the sexual activities you might partake in at any given moment. ie: toy in vagina, toy in bum, penis in vagina, penis in bum, daty, digits, etc. and have your wife sign them BEFORE you begin. Hell, you could be the next story we read about.......
But even if you DO get a woman to sign a consent form, I bet some do gooder judge will say "she was under duress when she signed so it doesn't matter" hell, they throw out prenuptuals now.....