Wont introduce me to his siblings?

[One and Only]

My boyfriend of 3 months has his sister (1 year older) and his brother (12 years older) in town tonight. I asked him if I could meet them and he made up some excuse about how "Oh, you'd just be bored because we haven't seen each other in a long time and we'll just be talking about family stuff."

When I talked to him about how I felt he told me that if the tables were turned and my sister came to town he'd be indifferent to meeting her - feeling that she was my sister and I'd want to be the one to spend time with her.

I feel hurt - nobody likes to be told to bug-off by their boyfriend. I'm not mad, just dissapointed.

Why do you think he wouldn't introduce me. He told me he loves me and he wants to be with me for a long time... do you think he's ashamed of me?

Oh, I should add he said something weird this morning that if he didn't introduce me he knew I'd be mad at him... which I told him wasn't true, but still was sort of an awk thing to say... no?

 

[justagirl]

Omfg.. Stop being such a drama queen.
It doesn't mean he doesn't love you, he just wants to spend time with family he haven't seen in awhile.


"Oh, I should add he said something weird this morning that if he didn't introduce me he knew I'd be mad at him"
Porbably because you always act like a clingy little drama queen.



Sorry to be so rude, but you need to let your boyfriend breathe.

 

[Johnson]

what i would do is let him have his way this time..but when his family roles up again...tell him you want to meet them