Would you let your husband get a massage from a female friend who is in that...

[Leilani]

...profession? I rather have him get it from someone we don't know. Like at a spa or something. If I tell him he'll think I'm over reacting. Me..I just don't trust anyone..you just don't know now a days..

 

[Mitzy]

if you don't feel comfortable just tell him and he'll understand. ask him how he'd feel if a guy did a massage on you. or if his best friend did a massage on you

 

[Gio★]

If she is a professional and this is her profession; I do not see the issue. I would not have a problem with it. If you husband is going to cheat on you it will be when and if he chooses. And there will be nothing you can do to stop it from happening. Calm down it is a professional massage from a professional who happens to be a friend. If you do not trust your husband or your friend that is an issue you will have to deal with that has nothing to do with massage.

 

[sexy man]

tell him you will give him him massage

 

[sexybutt]

Do it yourself. He'll appreciate it.

 

[jayR]

no b'coz for me it's a kinda immorality!!

 

[dontheturner]

Well, I get a regular Massage every week. The young woman who massages me, we both know rather well, and even invite her to come visit, for special times - birthdays etc.,/ Only you know if your man really fancies her - and of course if that is the case, then No - otherwise, why would he leave you? I would let it happen. - but then, that is me.

 

[_vee'bby#!]

marriage is a life time commitment, and as in ever relationship
there should be trust. if you don't like your husband to get a massage from
your friend, then why don't you ask that female friend to give you tips how
to massage him yourself. that way both of you guys are satisfied. but if
he hesitate for you to give him one, then there could be something going on.
but don't burst your bubble until you find the evidence that his hiding something.
good luck

 

[Paul]

If its her profession then it shouldn't really be a problem but if you don't feel comfortable tell him