your advice?

[Freda]

ok so i am a WL virgin, i have found a lady that i like but have not contacted her yet (tour is coming up soon apparently). any tips to stop me Reviewom being too nervous? care to share any stories about your 1st time?

thx!

 

[Sam L]

Relax !!!

Hiya Alex101,

WL Virgin huh?

Well the best advice is to just relax, be yourself and enjoy the lady's company. It's ok to tell your lady that you've never met a working lady before - in fact it will help, as she will know how to handle the situation and help you relax.

Don't try to act like you're the world's greatest lover. Don't get caught up analysing what you're doing (eg. "now I'm going to put my hand over here" etc etc...) Just take things one moment at a time and enjoy the experience.

Just remember one very important thing, she is a living, breathing person and can see, hear and feel, just like you, so treat her like one, not like an object, and everything will be fine.

(sermon over - lol)

Cheerz,

Raven

 

[Barb M]

First Time

Alex101,

I have to agree with the previous comments. If you let the lovely ausbabe know the situation, you will find it a much greater experience and remember to simply relax and enjoy!

Regards

Cash

 

[Love is great]

10% tip.

IMO try studying her profile. If she doesn't have one talk to her about the things she does or does not do before exchanging cash. You know where you stand then and won't be told ..no don't do that. That can really kill the moment. Remember it is your time so don't be aReviewaid to just get yourself off. Like Raven said though don't just treat her like an object and be a prick. The better you treat them the better the sex. Also I'm a big fan on tipping the ladies. If the service is poor and she wants to just rush you out the door ofcourse no tip. Around 10% would be fine.

 

[Elijah]

avoid Nerves

Have a PULL First

 

[Jamal of Babylon]

ekkkkkkkkkk lol

Does that really help Bruce - You think ?
I have heard in the past a few men say they did like "PULL" "Matsturbate" "wank" you know all that stuff lol, before they make a visit......
BUT yes really interested and intrigued to know if it does work 8)

 

[Due May 27th 2010]

A wank, before..... and after.

I had WO2 in the Army who used to say he had a wank before he had a naughty to make sure it was still working and one mpterwards to make sure there was nothing stuck in the barrel... weg

 

[a7x2121]

thanks for your help everyone! have a pull 1st? maybe, we shall see, depends how excited i get

so you would suggest telling the lady thats its your 1st time with a WL????

ab

 

[Nikki N]

LOL

No babe Don't have a "PULL" first

Oh I don't know, I am not a man thats why I was asking if men do normally do that ???
If I was going to see a lady I wouldn't anyway, I would just let the pleasure of the moment be enjoyed without any holdbacks ................

As for telling a lady that its your first time - my opinion yes do tell the lady you see - makes things abit easier and kind of breaks the ice so she knows where your coming Reviewom.

P.S What a funny word "pull" kind of like vagina or penis one of those words you kinda cringe at when you see it or hear it 8)

 

[sissy]

LMAO....

Have a pull first? I thought that only happened in the movies. (There's Something About Mary I think.....)

Anyways, I thought the whole point of going to see a lady was so you don't have to DIY.

Cheerz,

Raven

 

[:) i try to smile]

First time

Some suggestions Reviewom the memory of my first time nerves (not long ago)...I was nearly as nervous as my other first time.

Have a shower, shave, clean your teeth, dress up a bit if you like - if you feel good about yourself it helps to calm the nerves ... treat a WL with the same respect as you would any other.

Have a pull first? Don't think so - on my first time I was worried about not being to perform so certainly didn't need that.

I'd say definitely tell her it is your first time - the first lady I saw was so thoughtful and considerate when she found out, going out of her way to put me at ease, explain to me in the nicest way what to expect, and gently lead me along.

A delightful experience, and I'm still sorry she retired.

Actually, the second lady I saw retired also...maybe I'm doing something wrong? :? :?

 

[Cady]

ok well ill tell her its my 1st time then! perhaps ill avoid the DIY though haha!

 

[Pompal 09.]

Yeah, Alex..

.. i agree with the other guys... your first time will, mosy likely, not be easy, and you dont need to pull the pud first... (terminology FYI Nikki)... i only wish i had told my first WL i was new at it.... but that was way too long ago...lol. Enjoy, mate.

 

[Bill L]

prevention

Always look for the predetermined defence mechanism. Select the most "unappealing" WL you can find, therefore if you struggle you can blame it on the fact you found her unattractive!
JOKE
I often wonder if the first WL I saw (21 years ago?), was a shocker I may have saved myself a fortune over the years. I was unlucky enougth to meet a beautiful, funny and intelligent woman who provided a service that was beyond description. Therefore inducting me into this wonderful hobby and a life of debauchery (I think I may have found a life of debauchery myself anyway????????????????lol)
Have fun.

 

[Ashleigh P]

First time eh?

Ahhhh that brings back memories. My advice is "Just do it". It comes naturally.

My first was in King's Cross during a uni symposium, mpter a strip show and heaps of beer. I was about 20. It was at a slummy tenement in the back streets. The Reviewont door was at the footpath. I knocked and asked for Rosie and went in. The family were having dinner behind the coloured plastic ribbon curtains. The mother inspected the young fella, and said I hope you haven't been drinking too much. She then called for Rosie, who was about 18. She lay on her back on a divan bed near the Reviewont door. The light was dim but I could see she had pretty girl-next-door face. When she hitched up her skirt to reveal a gorgeous pair of creamy white legs terminating in a yummy map of Tassie, I nearly blew on the spot. No words were exchanged. It was just raw sex. Condoms were optional in those days so I didn't wear one. A few minutes later, I seforum.xxxgered out into the night, where my mates were waiting anxiously. I think they could tell by my expression that I was hooked for life on hookers.

I had an even more memorable experience the next night, when I picked up a street girl. One of the most stunning blondes I've ever seen in my entire life with a body to match (looked a lot like Brooke actually!). Went to a cheap hotel room, had primitive bareback sex, hardly said a word to each other. mpterwards she squatted over a basin of water on the floor and washed herself. This turned me on and I wanted another one but we got dressed and left. That was when I knew I could never give up the thrill of sex for cash (or is it cash for sex).

So Alex, hope you have a good encounter, but be warned, they are addictive, and you can end up very impoverished like Scouser and me :