Chat Does my favourite MPA like me or not???

[krayjee]

 

[hectorc]

Unlike a massage, an affair with an MPA never has a happy ending. You are married - work on your marriage. She is a sex service provider. You are just another man on her list. That's how it is.

 

[OG_funguy]

No disrespect. But you are starting to repeat yourself. We get it. She is special. Your soul mate. It’s different this time. And not your first rodeo.

Humour me. Then what’s exactly your problem ?

Sorry for being repetitive and there is no problem anymore. I've already said in my last several posts what I intend to do (based partly on your posts too btw).

It's just sometimes people are posting stuff so I feel it's courteous to respond to them.

PS: thanks for the video link, I will try to find the full version to download. Btw, for any guys that actually like a nice love story, check out the following. Ironically, the girl in the movie gets in the massage business out of desperation. I've sent this to my sweetie to watch as well. Leviathan, the guy in this movie was actually strong enough to confess to his wife...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comrades:_Almost_a_Love_Story

 

[Leviathan]

Most guys don’t read all the posts for the fine details. So they think your sweety is “typical stereotype “tainted MPA” with no morals, no respect for herself, integrity or ethics” . I’m a bit surprised the level of detail and repetition you are willing to go through on the fine nuances of your relationship for anyone with a standard post response of cynicism and foreboding. This is either insecurity or/and self ego stroking that you found “a diamond in the rough” ? LoL

The crux of the real issue is your existing marriage which you won’t disclose on anoynomous forum - is it so unique since the existence of mankind ? LoL Unless there is an understanding of this then your adventure with sweety is a moot point. Let’s take the worst case marriage scenario: you are willing to divorce your wife if sweety is potentially your soul mate.

To put this in a big picture perspective, You are basically in a extended preliminary dating stage with no sex within the confines of legit/semi legit massage parlour. And few outside dates. Both of you have no “real skin in the game” at the moment - no pun intended. Just time, heavy petting and massage fee. And sharing intimate moments and personal matters. So what really is the decisioning issue in the big scheme of things ? Exactly. Nothing. Your issue is trivial unless I missed something material you haven’t disclosed ?

And quite frankly I’m willing to bet many have similar advanced stage experiences but are unwilling to tell all.

I’m not here to judge. Bottom line whether it’s mPa, Sp or civilian, the only way to truly know the person is by living with them and over a long period of time, unless it’s a Cinderella Story. How long? Who da fuk knows ? So with that constraint you won’t truly ever know her. And even that’s not fail proof. There are a multitude of key factors which impact the sustainability of a relationship. Those factors can evolve over time too. External factors can come into play as well. People change too unless both of you are simpletons. You aren’t even close to have any concerns about sweety. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Ride the journey to a successful or unsuccessful end. Period. The risk mitigation is all controlled by you. Not her. You can decide to disengage anytime.


Ok. Everyone. OP has convinced us. She is special this time!!! Seriously !!!! LoL

On a lighter note, So you know Hangdai’s pear shaped Hottie? LoL. Now I know girls to avoid advocated from you in future? To each his own. Touché LoL

Interesting post for sure, and while there are similarities to my case, there are many differences as well...

First, the OP (and quite frankly many who have commented on my thread as well as his thread) are infatuated with their fave because of the sex (or at least the sex is clouding their judgement). I haven't even come close to that with my fave. My feelings are much deeper than physical (which is why it's so hard to get out of this - it's easy to find a physical replacement but not so easy to find an emotional one). Second, the OP said he found out the feelings weren't reciprocal. My fave insists she has strong feelings for me and not any other customer (you can call me naive but I believe her). Third, I know a lot about my fave outside of the MP. I have experienced her passion firsthand with her. Although it was just that one time, she's been open to it happening again. Bottom line, I know a lot of you are skeptical and say I'm being defensive (or naive) but for the most part (and I know there are exceptions), we're not comparing apples to apples. I'm aware of the type of girls many guys are referring to (again, this is not my first rodeo) and it's just different with my sweetie. She's in the industry but she's not an industry girl if you get what I'm saying. And please don't get me wrong, I'm definitely not suggesting my sweetie is the only one like this. But for many guys who don't visit a lot of low key semi-legits, ---where if I'm being honest, the women are not that hot---, they probably never met, as Leviathan put it, a plain jane simple village girl with honest intentions.

Anyways, despite all that I've said, I am still taking the advice of the majority and will slowly distance myself. I just can't do cold turkey like Hangdai as again, my connection is way beyond anything physical.

Btw, just curious is that hot pear shaped girl really the girl that hangdai was obsessed about? If yes, I can't blame him one bit. She's super hot!

 

[Hangdai]

Btw, just curious is that hot pear shaped girl really the girl that hangdai was obsessed about? If yes, I can't blame him one bit. She's super hot!

As much as I do love Cici from Blue Sky, she was not my obsession for 2 years.
Cici loved the online attention , but my girl deplored this site , and what can happen if just a few guys were pissed off with a spa, or, in the case of some guys on here, loved to bash everything that they don’t consider “top tier”.

 

[Leviathan]

Relax Hangy. Just poking fun. We have history . Remember? after your attacks due to my krayjee critical assessment and sordid pimp wannabe trickery. I really don’t give a flying hoot what you fuck and suck. Or what she sucks and swallows. And Any your repetitive reminders 5x release needs. “You so strong baby” ! LoL

By the way, where is He hiding these days? Hope he is healthy and fine. Nobody wishes Ill will upon others . I miss his know it all bravado and your cow towing hubris . Where is that classy dude Mr. Brett aka BJFan these days ? Stilll dating and fucking the mistress owner of Xxx chain ? He stopped promoting her shop and girls . LoL

You guys should swap owners ? Mix it up. It’s a numbers game and you will eventually find “the one” with over 1000 shops in GTA? LoL

 

[c1000]

Who cares? Have fun.

 

[Hangdai]

I miss his know it all bravado and your cow towing hubris .

Cow towing? Is this what you guys do on a slow night out in the boonies?

I think this is what you meant, I learnt it from my Chinese friends.

kow·tow
/ˌkouˈtou/
verb

1. 1.
   act in an excessively subservient manner.
   "she didn't have to kowtow to a boss"
   synonyms: grovel to, be obsequious to, be servile to, be sycophantic to, fawn over/on, cringe to, bow and scrape to, toady to, truckle to, abase oneself before, humble oneself to; More
   
   
2. 2.
   HISTORICAL
   kneel and touch the ground with the forehead in worship or submission as part of Chinese custom.
   synonyms: prostrate oneself before, bow (down) to/ before, genuflect to/before, do/make obeisance to/before, fall on one's knees before, kneel before
   "they kowtowed to the emperor"

noun
HISTORICAL

1. 1.
   an act of kowtowing as part of Chinese custom.

 

[OG_funguy]

As much as I do love Cici from Blue Sky, she was not my obsession for 2 years.
Cici loved the online attention , but my girl deplored this site , and what can happen if just a few guys were pissed off with a spa, or, in the case of some guys on here, loved to bash everything that they don’t consider “top tier”.

But is that picture at the end of your thread really her? Like I said, she's hot! I love girls with curves like that (reminds me of my first Filipino GF).

 

[Hangdai]

But is that picture at the end of your thread really her? Like I said, she's hot! I love girls with curves like that (reminds me of my first Filipino GF).

Nothing on here is real, Levishits exaggerated attempt at insulting Cici’s figure is humorous.
Just like this picture I found of him and KJ at their last get together.

 

[OG_funguy]

Ok, I see...LOL.

 

[douche]

Some quick background. I've seen many MPAs in the past, almost all work at semi-legit places. I'm really drawn to one in particular and have very strong feelings for her (I've been seeing her almost every week for the last couple of years). By all accounts, she is very average looking and most guys here would not even look twice at her. She's Asian, probably mid to late 40's (she won't tell me her age) and very traditional. Despite the profession she's in, she's actually quite inexperienced sexually (yes, I know this is hard to believe). In any event, I'm not drawn to her because of anything sexual related (even her massage is not that good LOL). Anyways, I know a lot of you have experience from being in similar situations so based on the facts below, please let me know if you think she has genuine feelings for me or if she is playing me just so I continue to see her.

Reasons why she might actually like me:

• She has told me many times that she has strong feelings towards me (I'm not naive and can usually tell if someone is genuine or not).
• Our sessions are very intimate and include both passionate and tender kissing as well as cuddling. We also have pretty deep conversations.
• No surprise here but she tells me that we do things that she doesn't do with anyone else (in case you're wondering this doesn't include FS or even BJ).
• I know her real name and birthday (in case this actually matters).
• We've gone out once and she insisted on paying for the venue. At the venue, there were many people that know her. I mean the "real" her, they have no idea she is an MPA. We had a great time together and no, there was no fooling around at all.
• She does nice things for me, for example sometimes after our session has ended, we'll just sit around and she'll feed me fruit or something.
• We chat regularly via IM and sometimes live so yes, I do have her number (and she claims I'm the only customer that has it).
• I asked for and she sent me photos of her younger self. She grew up in China without digital cameras so these are actually pictures of pictures.
• I don't tip her anything above the norm; when I do try to tip her more, she refuses.
• I've offered to buy her small things and she refuses.

Reasons why she might just be playing with me:

• Mixed messages. She knows I'm falling for her (yes, I'm breaking the golden rule) and basically encourages me to see other MPAs but then she'll send me a message saying she's afraid to lose me. Then a week later, she'll say not to see other MPAs. The constant back & forth is confusing.
• This is the big one. Except for the one time we went out, she has not agreed to go out again (except for her birthday which is coming up). When I ask why, she can't really offer up a good reason and avoids the topic. Now, she does know I'm married so that could be it (she has said before that if I was single, she would definitely date me). But if this was the case, why did she even go out with me that one time. Also, I recently asked again if it was because I'm married and she said no.
• So basically the only time I see her is during our paid sessions.

Sorry for the long post but I really would like to get your guys thoughts on this. Thanks.

Reply hazy, try again

 

[Leviathan]

Just like the exaggerations of yellow/gray teeth decay Maggie who stacks her Middle East and East Indian clients in 4 rooms with more waiting in the parking lot for 80 buck bbbj cim. Let’s not forget over the hill sweet Alice in her 50/60s who can’t retire and need to serve fucktards like you who release 3-5x in her mouth in a hour for 200 bucks ! And let’s not forget very loose stomach and loose bowel Catherine TOG who is in her 50s/60s and cant retire serving fucktards.

Why not disclose the owner who dumped you on the street crying like a baby ? Let’s see if this “ravishing beauty” puts out for the herd or she is different ? Alphabet soup menu tier 3 Asian gilfs LoL. Where is cici these days to let the members check out this pear shaped bottom heavy and round face village babe of yours . Which I turned right around and exited after she greeted me and I rejected her and she tried to Introduce her gilf pal. Her business collapsed after your shilling for her.

Golden rule ? She had zero emotional commitment to you. And you still became emotionally attached to her because of paid sex at the parlour for 2 years every week? What’s wrong with you? Are you a socially inept or just relationship deprived ? You can’t even snag a chinese gilf? You are a real prize winner ! LoL
http://massageplanet.net/i-broke-the-golden-rule.t148531/

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Nothing on here is real, Levishits exaggerated attempt at insulting Cici’s figure is humorous.
Just like this picture I found of him and KJ at their last get together.

 

[Leviathan]

So how does your sweetie compare to Hangdog’s goto gilf sweet Alice ? Yum yum looking at that sexy pose LoL

Ok, I see...LOL.

 

[OG_funguy]

View attachment 93590 So how does your sweetie compare to Hangdog’s goto gilf sweet Alice ? Yum yum looking at that sexy pose LoL

I've seen better pictures of Alice...she's ok but I prefer my sweetie

 

[Leviathan]

If Alice is ok to you. Then I wonder what’s Yolanda ? LoL Had a smashing time with her.

I've seen better pictures of Alice...she's ok but I prefer my sweetie

 

[OG_funguy]

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If Alice is ok to you. Then I wonder what’s Yolanda ? LoL Had a smashing time with her.

Yes, obviously my sweetie can't compare physically to young, hot girls. But she brings me good feelings beyond the massage room. Look at some of her messages below, I'm always happy hearing from her.

Texts have been removed based on feedback from other posters...thx.

 

[Leviathan]

It’s time to take the relationship to next level from digital mental foreplay to physical cohabitation ? LoL

Yes, obviously my sweetie can't compare physically to young, hot girls. But she brings me good feelings beyond the massage room. Look at some of her messages below, I'm always happy hearing from her.
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[Leviathan]

That goes without saying. So take it to next level cohabitation ? She is waiting for your next move to put some “real skin in the game”. When will you show some real commitment to ditch your wife and change the scene from paid parlour meetings to a real relationship ? ?

Don’t middle age men know exactly what they want ? It’s time to man up! LoL

Some guys are just looking for an awesome physical experience (nothing wrong with that) but I have a different MO. I like that my honey gets me new food to try or Chinese medicine when I'm not feeling well.
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[Deleted member 64273]

So, sounds like she does like you for real. No one can tell you what to do though. You are free to dig your own rabbit hole.