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[Can't_Get_Right]

Monogamy is failing men.

In a famous study a male rat was allowed to mate with a female rat until exhaustion. After some time the male rat lost energy and didn't try to approach the female rat again. However when another female was put in the cage the male rat became instantly sexually active and started mating with the new female. This kept happening as the researchers kept introducing new females.

Studies have shown that males do lose their sexual interest in their women when they get into a long term relationship. This doesn't mean that a man no longer gets attracted to his woman but it's just the fact that lack of novelty lowers male libido and reduces sexual desire.

3 Reasons men aren't meant to be monogamous

• 1) Love & sexual attraction is almost the same for men
• 2) Men were polygamous throughout history
• 3) Male libido drops when he commits to one woman

In another theory men who are already polygamous, according to the theory, had to become monogamous to prevent other males from killing their offspring. When men mate with more than one woman and have so many children it becomes hard to protect them all and because of that reason men started sticking to one female to easily protect the family.

These statistics are not without logic. Evolutionary psychologist David M Buss, Professor of Psychology at the University of Texas and author of The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating, says men are simply wired to seek out as many female partners as possible.

According to Buss, Evolutionary Psychologist, men have “evolved the desire to be with different women” because there is simply no biological barrier in place stopping a man procreating with as many women as possible. Men have limitless sperm compared to the limitations on women and their eggs; men can effectively have back-to-back babies whereas women have to wait nine months in between each birth; men can up and leave, whereas women are in for the long haul.

As a result, men are programmed to expand “their genetic legacy by spreading their cheap seed, while females are inherently made to maximize their investment by being choosy, by securing a male likely to be a good long-term provider".

 

[OG_funguy]

I think it goes without saying that most men, if given the choice, would prefer to have sex with multiple women...like every day.

 

[Whitesnake1987]

Its natural to do

 

[snoopdoggie]

Monogamy is failing men.

In a famous study a male rat was allowed to mate with a female rat until exhaustion. After some time the male rat lost energy and didn't try to approach the female rat again. However when another female was put in the cage the male rat became instantly sexually active and started mating with the new female. This kept happening as the researchers kept introducing new females.

Studies have shown that males do lose their sexual interest in their women when they get into a long term relationship. This doesn't mean that a man no longer gets attracted to his woman but it's just the fact that lack of novelty lowers male libido and reduces sexual desire.

3 Reasons men aren't meant to be monogamous

• 1) Love & sexual attraction is almost the same for men
• 2) Men were polygamous throughout history
• 3) Male libido drops when he commits to one woman

In another theory men who are already polygamous, according to the theory, had to become monogamous to prevent other males from killing their offspring. When men mate with more than one woman and have so many children it becomes hard to protect them all and because of that reason men started sticking to one female to easily protect the family.

These statistics are not without logic. Evolutionary psychologist David M Buss, Professor of Psychology at the University of Texas and author of The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating, says men are simply wired to seek out as many female partners as possible.

According to Buss, Evolutionary Psychologist, men have “evolved the desire to be with different women” because there is simply no biological barrier in place stopping a man procreating with as many women as possible. Men have limitless sperm compared to the limitations on women and their eggs; men can effectively have back-to-back babies whereas women have to wait nine months in between each birth; men can up and leave, whereas women are in for the long haul.

As a result, men are programmed to expand “their genetic legacy by spreading their cheap seed, while females are inherently made to maximize their investment by being choosy, by securing a male likely to be a good long-term provider".

Not only that, but it adds to the excitement.

 

[therealcole]

What a load of shit. If you have a SO and cheat on her then you are just a weak minded loser.You make excuses for your behavior. Quoting one book of one guys opinion is just so Trump like. You look for the words that will back up your claim and that becomes your talking point. Monogamy is a construct of religion, education and the evolution of humans as a society. The same as evolving from hunter gatherers to farming to communities to cities and then countries. As all this has happened so has the languages, religion, the written word and finally the laws that govern our current societies which for the most part are based on religion.

 

[Dongo]

Religion is the bane of mankind... the cause of pain, tyranny, suffering and has killed the best instincts of the evolving human psyche. Religion was invented by a few individuals of higher intelligence in cultures throughout history to control the masses and centralize power and wealth.... no other purpose.
From before the Egyptians, Myans, the Inquisition, the Salem Witch-hunts , to mass murder and genocide, religion has been at the centre of it.
It has become rationelle for those that want to put their myopic, fanciful, controlling bullshit on the rest of society.

 

[xtc27]

---there's that Xmas spirit....

...ever notice many Asian MPAs wear a little cross around their necks? If I jizz on it, did I blaspheme?

...sure lots of priests on this board, maybe SO could weigh in...

...used to spend so much sporting event tx, going to bar/strip club, drive to US...now get quality one-on-one time w/attractv girls for way less...

 

[RealBadman]

Monogamy's been the root cause of interpersonal problems since the dawn of civilized society.

Humans are not instinctively monogamous, it's a construct of society that goes against our nature.

It made sense in a time where birth control and understanding of STDs was terrible, so we needed to prevent everyone getting herpes and a bunch of unwanted babies.

Now we have the technology and understanding

 

[hangul99]

What a load of shit. If you have a SO and cheat on her then you are just a weak minded loser.You make excuses for your behavior. Quoting one book of one guys opinion is just so Trump like. You look for the words that will back up your claim and that becomes your talking point. Monogamy is a construct of religion, education and the evolution of humans as a society. The same as evolving from hunter gatherers to farming to communities to cities and then countries. As all this has happened so has the languages, religion, the written word and finally the laws that govern our current societies which for the most part are based on religion.

You realize what site you are on, don't you?

 

[xtc27]

You realize what site you are on, don't you?

...you ever get the feeling that someone hacked therealcole's ID? Like his wife?...

 

[therealcole]

...you ever get the feeling that someone hacked therealcole's ID? Like his wife?...

I would never be married or have a SO and cheat them. Only a loser would make a vow to their wife and then cheat on her. The best part is that most of you wankers that cheat on their SO would lose their shit if she cheated on you. You make excuses for cheating on you SO but it all comes down to you being an asshole to the one that you made a promise to. That promise was made to your so called god or to a JP. I am an asshole. There is no doubt about that but I have never cheated while I have had a SO.

 

[xtc27]

I would never be married or have a SO and cheat them. Only a loser would make a vow to their wife and then cheat on her. The best part is that most of you wankers that cheat on their SO would lose their shit if she cheated on you. You make excuses for cheating on you SO but it all comes down to you being an asshole to the one that you made a promise to. That promise was made to your so called god or to a JP. I am an asshole. There is no doubt about that but I have never cheated while I have had a SO.

...still sounds like yr wife... you got some ID?... Conclusion: Not therealcole... this=thefakecole...

 

[therealcole]

...still sounds like yr wife... you got some ID?... Conclusion: Not therealcole... this=thefakecole...

My login name is therealcole therefore I am therealcole. What a fucking turd you are.

 

[hangul99]

I would never be married or have a SO and cheat them. Only a loser would make a vow to their wife and then cheat on her. The best part is that most of you wankers that cheat on their SO would lose their shit if she cheated on you. You make excuses for cheating on you SO but it all comes down to you being an asshole to the one that you made a promise to. That promise was made to your so called god or to a JP. I am an asshole. There is no doubt about that but I have never cheated while I have had a SO.

Never say never. If you aren't married you really cant say what you would do or wouldn't do. Ideals are nice but often go out the window.

 

[therealcole]

Never say never. If you aren't married you really cant say what you would do or wouldn't do. Ideals are nice but often go out the window.

A promise is a promise is a promise. I know myself better then you do. I would get a divorce before I would cheat but then I have morals.

 

[hangul99]

A promise is a promise is a promise. I know myself better then you do. I would get a divorce before I would cheat but then I have morals.

Everyone thinks they know themselves until they dont.

Those who look down on others from their perch often fall the farthest.

 

[therealcole]

Everyone thinks they know themselves until they dont.

Those who look down on others from their perch often fall the farthest.

You are saying that it is impossible to keep a promise to your god, wife or JP? It is impossible for a man to be faithful to one woman? It is impossible for me to know myself better then you? I have never cheated on any girl while we were dating, ever. I am so glad that you know my up bringing, my religious beliefs and my moral compass better then I do. If you cheat on your SO then you are an ass. Plain and simple. Go tell her that you are cheating on her if you are so firm in your belief that it is OK to cheat. Better yet let her cheat on you with a guy that is everything that you are not. Good looking, physically fit, polite, treats a woman with respect and listens to her when she needs someone to talk to. Oh wait, you do not give a shit. You are cheating to save the marriage. LOL You can colour it any way you want. Cheating on your SO is wrong. I am just stating the facts that cheating is wrong on any level but go ahead and explain to my how it is good and the right thing to do.

 

[hangul99]

You are saying that it is impossible to keep a promise to your god, wife or JP? It is impossible for a man to be faithful to one woman? It is impossible for me to know myself better then you? I have never cheated on any girl while we were dating, ever. I am so glad that you know my up bringing, my religious beliefs and my moral compass better then I do. If you cheat on your SO then you are an ass. Plain and simple. Go tell her that you are cheating on her if you are so firm in your belief that it is OK to cheat. Better yet let her cheat on you with a guy that is everything that you are not. Good looking, physically fit, polite, treats a woman with respect and listens to her when she needs someone to talk to. Oh wait, you do not give a shit. You are cheating to save the marriage. LOL You can colour it any way you want. Cheating on your SO is wrong. I am just stating the facts that cheating is wrong on any level but go ahead and explain to my how it is good and the right thing to do.

I dont know you. Nor do you know anything about me. I've never stated that it was ok to cheat. What i am saying is that you should get off your fucking high horse and stop preaching.

I also find it funny how you say you have this moral compass and you wouldn't cheat yet you are ok with fucking someone else's wife who is an attendant at a spa. Unless of course you are naive enough to believe that all the girls you see are single. What does your "God" say about that.

 

[OG_funguy]

There are no saints on this forum, we all have 'issues', some more than others...

 

[therealcole]

I dont know you. Nor do you know anything about me. I've never stated that it was ok to cheat. What i am saying is that you should get off your fucking high horse and stop preaching.

I also find it funny how you say you have this moral compass and you wouldn't cheat yet you are ok with fucking someone else's wife who is an attendant at a spa. Unless of course you are naive enough to believe that all the girls you see are single. What does your "God" say about that.

What other people decide to do without my knowledge is a different thing. there is no way for me to know if they are married. If I find out that they are married then I would and have stopped seeing them. Seems pretty simple to me. I also know that I would never drive drunk. I would never speed in a school zone. I would never offer alcohol or cigarettes to a minor.
Who says that I have a god. I never said that I had a god or that I was religious. You are reading words that are not there. I can and will say what I want just like you are doing as well. It is interesting how you can criticize me for what I say but I can not criticize you for what you say. I suppose that you will block me now because you can not debate topics without getting upset. LOL