Am I the only Honest Person Left?

[Ursus]

I am honest about myself.

I am in my 40s, below average looking, balding, skinny and have an anti-social personality. That's the truth. It isnt what I had hoped to be when I was growing up, but it is what I am today. The truth is the truth, whether we like it or not. I have always prided myself on telling the truth and seeking the truth.

I was talking to a prostitute on the weekend about her desire for more money. And then, yesterday, I was talking a civilian girl about her desire to find a 'good man', which of course means she wants to trade up and find a guy to pay her bills. Both women were having the same conversation with me, with slightly different styles of delivery on their respective parts. And the 2nd conversation with the civie girl made me think of my weekend conversation with the prostitute. It also made me think about how 99.9% of humans lie to themselves each and every day in regards to what they are, and what they offer to others in return for what they say they want.

First, the prostitute I was talking to about her desire for money - to put it bluntly - is past her prime. She is in her 40s, looks too old to attract most high-status guys, but is foolishly convinced that she has alot of sexual market value (SMV). I wonder if she has considered that high-status guys with lots of money have the option of choosing between her and 20 year old women as well. But, from talking to her, it seems as though she doesnt realize this GLARING REALITY and she continues to lie to herself that she has a bright future with some rich man she has yet to meet. She is at least 10 years past her prime, but thinks she is still in her prime.

Then, the civie woman, in her 30s, was also talking about how she wants to find a 'good man'. She is saying the same thing as the prostitute, just in a slightly more palatable way. Again though, I looked at her as she was explaining her disires and goals, and I wondered whether or not she realized she was in her 30s, and therefore, could never hope of competing with women in their 20s for the best guys out there.

It seems women do not understand that there best years are from 18 - 25 years old. If they havent landed that 'good man' or rich guy in their early 20s, they arent going to do it in their 30s and 40s. The competition will beat them as women in their 30s and 40s have less to offer a high-status man.

Guys, you have to watch out for the high-minded ladies who are past their primes. You cant be foolish and invest in these women. They are too old to start families with, too used up to expect a great time with them and these women arent pretty enough to give you a good return on your investment with them. If you marry a woman in her 30s who is 10 years past her prime, you will still be paying hundreds of thousands of dollars, but will be doing it against a woman that is equivalent to a 10 year old car.

I always talk about how beautiful some mature ladies are. They are beautiful for their age. But make no mistake about it - I wouldnt invest in these women as they offer nothing in return. And if you guys are smart, you will remember my words and only invest in younger women who can offer you kids, beauty and a fresh kitty.

Would you buy a new car for $30K,
Or a 5 year old car for the same $30K
Or a 10 year old car for the same $30K

Regards
Ursus

 

[OG_funguy]

Older women may be past their prime in the FS/SP business but can often still "get by" in the semi-legit business. Keep in mind, there are many hobbyists MUCH older than you and a lot of them are not looking for 'sex' per se but instead just a good massage (mainly) and pleasant conversation. For these guys, the older ladies often offer better value, better attitude and better service (i.e. less transactional).

In the civie world, don't you know...30's is the new 20's

Btw, since you're only balding and not quite bald yet, you should look into getting a hair transplant.

 

[Ursus]

Older women may be past their prime in the FS/SP business but can often still "get by" in the semi-legit business. Keep in mind, there are many hobbyists MUCH older than you and a lot of them are not looking for 'sex' per se but instead just a good massage (mainly) and pleasant conversation. For these guys, the older ladies often offer better value, better attitude and better service (i.e. less transactional).

In the civie world, don't you know...30's is the new 20's

Btw, since you're only balding and not quite bald yet, you should look into getting a hair transplant.

I have been ugly my whole life.

Hair wont make a difference one way or the other.

 

[sy barite]

I am honest about myself.

I am in my 40s, below average looking, balding, skinny and have an anti-social personality. That's the truth. It isnt what I had hoped to be when I was growing up, but it is what I am today. The truth is the truth, whether we like it or not. I have always prided myself on telling the truth and seeking the truth.

I was talking to a prostitute on the weekend about her desire for more money. And then, yesterday, I was talking a civilian girl about her desire to find a 'good man', which of course means she wants to trade up and find a guy to pay her bills. Both women were having the same conversation with me, with slightly different styles of delivery on their respective parts. And the 2nd conversation with the civie girl made me think of my weekend conversation with the prostitute. It also made me think about how 99.9% of humans lie to themselves each and every day in regards to what they are, and what they offer to others in return for what they say they want.

First, the prostitute I was talking to about her desire for money - to put it bluntly - is past her prime. She is in her 40s, looks too old to attract most high-status guys, but is foolishly convinced that she has alot of sexual market value (SMV). I wonder if she has considered that high-status guys with lots of money have the option of choosing between her and 20 year old women as well. But, from talking to her, it seems as though she doesnt realize this GLARING REALITY and she continues to lie to herself that she has a bright future with some rich man she has yet to meet. She is at least 10 years past her prime, but thinks she is still in her prime.

Then, the civie woman, in her 30s, was also talking about how she wants to find a 'good man'. She is saying the same thing as the prostitute, just in a slightly more palatable way. Again though, I looked at her as she was explaining her disires and goals, and I wondered whether or not she realized she was in her 30s, and therefore, could never hope of competing with women in their 20s for the best guys out there.

It seems women do not understand that there best years are from 18 - 25 years old. If they havent landed that 'good man' or rich guy in their early 20s, they arent going to do it in their 30s and 40s. The competition will beat them as women in their 30s and 40s have less to offer a high-status man.

Guys, you have to watch out for the high-minded ladies who are past their primes. You cant be foolish and invest in these women. They are too old to start families with, too used up to expect a great time with them and these women arent pretty enough to give you a good return on your investment with them. If you marry a woman in her 30s who is 10 years past her prime, you will still be paying hundreds of thousands of dollars, but will be doing it against a woman that is equivalent to a 10 year old car.

I always talk about how beautiful some mature ladies are. They are beautiful for their age. But make no mistake about it - I wouldnt invest in these women as they offer nothing in return. And if you guys are smart, you will remember my words and only invest in younger women who can offer you kids, beauty and a fresh kitty.

Would you buy a new car for $30K,
Or a 5 year old car for the same $30K
Or a 10 year old car for the same $30K

Regards
Ursus

Why would any of this make you think you are the last honest person?

As for the rest of it, there are plenty of guys with money in their 60s and 70s who would be self-conscious about seeing or being seen with a hot woman in her early 20s, but feel comfortable with a hot woman in her late 30s, 40s or beyond...of which there are plenty. If you're just posting to make conversation..that's fine, but does it really need explaining?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

For me for a one and done experience attitude and service comes first, then the feel of the woman (I am tactile, I love the feel of skin, tits, ass), then looks/youth. For long term relationships once you get through the honeymoon phase it is all about having a responsible partner with a good attitude who is more asset than liability.

 

[xtc27]

Older women may be past their prime in the FS/SP business but can often still "get by" in the semi-legit business. Keep in mind, there are many hobbyists MUCH older than you and a lot of them are not looking for 'sex' per se but instead just a good massage (mainly) and pleasant conversation. For these guys, the older ladies often offer better value, better attitude and better service (i.e. less transactional).

In the civie world, don't you know...30's is the new 20's

Btw, since you're only balding and not quite bald yet, you should look into getting a hair transplant.

...women in their 30's = perfectly fine if weight controlled... too many let themselves go...

... many Asian women = awesome in their 30's... too skinny in 20's, add few lbs... look amazing... gravity hasn't had a chance yet...

...& so much better @ sex... convo possible...

Car analogy... brand new honda civic or 5 yr old Mazerati... same $30K?

 

[Ursus]

A 5 year old Mazerati depreciates HEAVILY.Any luxury car is only worth 25% of its original sticker price after year 5. Not relaible, too expensive to fix.

A young sexy Civic doesnt turn into a Mazerati just because you feel better about such a fantasy.

 

[OG_funguy]

...there are plenty of guys with money in their 60s and 70s who would be self-conscious about seeing or being seen with a hot woman in her early 20s, but feel comfortable with a hot woman in her late 30s, 40s or beyond...

Agreed. I'm not that old but would personally prefer women in their 30's or 40's because I think I can relate with them more (along with the advantages from my previous post).

 

[OG_funguy]

...women in their 30's = perfectly fine if weight controlled... too many let themselves go...

... many Asian women = awesome in their 30's... too skinny in 20's, add few lbs... look amazing... gravity hasn't had a chance yet...

...& so much better @ sex... convo possible...

Car analogy... brand new honda civic or 5 yr old Mazerati... same $30K?

Agreed, I prefer a bit of 'meat' too and not just bones : )

 

[xtc27]

A 5 year old Mazerati depreciates HEAVILY.Any luxury car is only worth 25% of its original sticker price after year 5. Not relaible, too expensive to fix.

A young sexy Civic doesnt turn into a Mazerati just because you feel better about such a fantasy.

...Check it out... gimme the 5 yr old Maserati...

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Yup, Civic never turns into Maserati... my point exactly. Quality trumps age.

 

[Ursus]

...Check it out... gimme the 5 yr old Maserati...

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Yup, Civic never turns into Maserati... my point exactly. Quality trumps age.

The Maserati isnt a quality car. Its a status symbol. They depreciate heavily because they are poorly built.

 

[snoopdoggie]

The Maserati isnt a quality car. Its a status symbol. They depreciate heavily because they are poorly built.

Actually some exotic cars can appreciate over time, if kept in pristine condition.

 

[Akindmax]

Older women may be past their prime in the FS/SP business but can often still "get by" in the semi-legit business. Keep in mind, there are many hobbyists MUCH older than you and a lot of them are not looking for 'sex' per se but instead just a good massage (mainly) and pleasant conversation. For these guys, the older ladies often offer better value, better attitude and better service (i.e. less transactional).

In the civie world, don't you know...30's is the new 20's

Btw, since you're only balding and not quite bald yet, you should look into getting a hair transplant.

Seems you offended a women here...ha ha. 30 can never be a 20. Women are googled by every person on this earth with 30 yyrs age into this business. They want to get a naive men and settle on his money. They are vultures like old men try to get young girls and fool them, lure them. I never talk to any lady above 30 and waste my time. As Ursus said....dont buy a old car....no value and high maintenance

 

[OG_funguy]

Seems you offended a women here...ha ha. 30 can never be a 20. Women are googled by every person on this earth with 30 yyrs age into this business. They want to get a naive men and settle on his money. They are vultures like old men try to get young girls and fool them, lure them. I never talk to any lady above 30 and waste my time. As Ursus said....dont buy a old car....no value and high maintenance

Fair enough...my point was that in this new era of millennials, many women are focusing more on their careers and are more independent than in the past. Thus, while it was common back in the day to get married in their 20's, there's nothing 'abnormal' with ladies getting married in their 30's now.

Ursus has a point though. I was recently at the gym with a 40+ MPA but I couldn't keep my eyes off all the young hotties in there. It's one thing seeing them at the spa when there's no one else to compare to but out in public, especially next to young hotties at the gym, is a different story. Regardless, on a non-physical level, I still relate better to women in their 30's and 40's.

 

[Akindmax]

Fair enough...my point was that in this new era of millennials, many women are focusing more on their careers and are more independent than in the past. Thus, while it was common back in the day to get married in their 20's, there's nothing 'abnormal' with ladies getting married in their 30's now.

Ursus has a point though. I was recently at the gym with a 40+ MPA but I couldn't keep my eyes off all the young hotties in there. It's one thing seeing them at the spa when there's no one else to compare to but out in public, especially next to young hotties at the gym, is a different story. Regardless, on a non-physical level, I still relate better to women in their 30's and 40's.

Agree, a women in 30s will be over 40s in terms of mind maturity. Yes, they dont throw tantrum like young girl and know how to make you cum in minutes or keep you in the stage of bliss for long. However, some of us dont get ON with old women but some might be. Like some girls like only grey fox and dont want to be banged by a young brut. They prefer a more refined, sensual man.