Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[cl794]

Already went out this morning and figured that was it. Then the girl I really like sends me the below message. I just can’t resist her so guess it will be another doubleheader day…

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Do you ask girls for their wechat on first visit? Or would that be too fast?

Lol at the message, I get it though, surprisingly many stores are open, and I guess they don't want to be just alone waiting at the store.

 

[OG_funguy]

Not trying to bring down the mood, but I think seeing the relationship as mostly businessperson and customer relationship explains a lot.

For the question asked in the title, like, can you really trust your real estate agent at all? How much can you trust your contact at car dealership? How much can you trust your mechanic? None of these people need to be "evil", they don't need to be "dishonest". But it's just reality that businessperson/customer relationship is just how it is.

However it really doesn't contradict with doing fun activities mentioned in this thread. Like you have to pay to play billards, not that far fetched to pay for other activities involving stick and holes.

Believe it or not, some of these girls don’t even care about the money. I know it’s very hard to believe but it’s true…it’s the exception though and there would need to be a strong connection between the two of you.

 

[OG_funguy]

Do you ask girls for their wechat on first visit? Or would that be too fast?

Lol at the message, I get it though, surprisingly many stores are open, and I guess they don't want to be just alone waiting at the store.

Yes, I often ask on the first visit if I feel they are comfortable with me. Otherwise maybe the second visit…as I was just telling another member, if you go to see a girl a second time, they often open up to you a lot more.

My all time fave is actually a very private girl. It is very rare for her to say things like “I miss you”…she doesn’t normally say it even in a joking casual manner.

 

[Surgeon1936]

Yes, I often ask on the first visit if I feel they are comfortable with me. Otherwise maybe the second visit…as I was just telling another member, if you go to see a girl a second time, they often open up to you a lot more.
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My all time fave is actually a very private girl. It is very rare for her to say things like “I miss you”…she doesn’t normally say it even in a joking casual manner.

My too as well never say " I miss you " but I know with all my gut she does

 

[cl794]

Believe it or not, some of these girls don’t even care about the money. I know it’s very hard to believe but it’s true…it’s the exception though and there would need to be a strong connection between the two of you.

I believe it. Girls need more than money in their lives and they can actually get money from other men and in other ways. What you described, it's a good relationship, and yeah it's not really covered by my metaphor. Like it doesn't need to be a bf/gf relationship by Hollywood standard. But it's a legit type of relationship regardless.

 

[cl794]

Yes, I often ask on the first visit if I feel they are comfortable with me. Otherwise maybe the second visit…as I was just telling another member, if you go to see a girl a second time, they often open up to you a lot more.

My all time fave is actually a very private girl. It is very rare for her to say things like “I miss you”…she doesn’t normally say it even in a joking casual manner.

Great points.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

I believe it. Girls need more than money in their lives and they can actually get money from other men and in other ways. What you described, it's a good relationship, and yeah it's not really covered by my metaphor. Like it doesn't need to be a bf/gf relationship by Hollywood standard. But it's a legit type of relationship regardless.

The impression I have is many are here alone and away from the judgement they’d receive from family and friends back home.
They get to fulfil their needs and loneliness.

 

[OG_funguy]

The impression I have is many are here alone and away from the judgement they’d receive from family and friends back home.
They get to fulfil their needs and loneliness.

That's what we're here for

 

[Lalallala]

No kidding. And we don’t get any judgement here when we ask a girl to stick their finger up our butthole.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

That's what we're here for

Saint OG

 

[Ambler]

No kidding. And we don’t get any judgement here when we ask a girl to stick their finger up our butthole.

To each their own...

 

[Lalallala]

I was carving this for dinner and almost wanted to stick my face in it.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

I was carving this for dinner and almost wanted to stick my face in it.

Mine was more well done but everyone else loved it. Actually it was pretty good nonetheless

 

[Lalallala]

Mine was more well done but everyone else loved it. Actually it was pretty good nonetheless

Hmm the joke went over like a lead balloon I guess

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Hmm the joke went over like a lead balloon I guess

I’m a little slow tonight. On second look… you’re a sick puppy

 

[Surgeon1936]

The impression I have is many are here alone and away from the judgement they’d receive from family and friends back home.
They get to fulfil their needs and loneliness.

Even they have family in Canada They are "alone" because family and friends will judge them about what they are doing for leaving so they always need somebody ,support person who listen to them in non judgemental manner

 

[Social-Misfit]

I'm gonna block you!!!

You wouldn't block anyone shitstain, you'd rather spread bullshit and lies to anyone that will listen, yer buddies on here for example right old man

 

[LoveSpaGirls]

Yes, I often ask on the first visit if I feel they are comfortable with me. Otherwise maybe the second visit…as I was just telling another member, if you go to see a girl a second time, they often open up to you a lot more.

My all time fave is actually a very private girl. It is very rare for her to say things like “I miss you”…she doesn’t normally say it even in a joking casual manner.

I have gotten WeChat every time I've bothered to ask without exception. First visit or any other visit.

 

[OG_funguy]

Got fairly close to a semi girl recently...she messages me quite a bit and even said the "L" word once. Here's the thing, she's in a long term relationship!

So..."can you trust spa girls?"...what do you think? Some guys are in relationships with these girls (hell, even I was)...just know what you're getting into...eventually, they will fall for another guy.

 

[Lalallala]

Got fairly close to a semi girl recently...she messages me quite a bit and even said the "L" word once. Here's the thing, she's in a long term relationship!

So..."can you trust spa girls?"...what do you think? Some guys are in relationships with these girls (hell, even I was)...just know what you're getting into...eventually, they will fall for another guy.


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to be fair, this isn't even about spa girls but anyone. If you're actively chasing a girl and making her feel good, if she's receptive to it (and sometimes they have to be, like being a spa girl or a coworker at any other job), then shit like this is gonna happen.