Abducted by an MPA! Our Friend & his MPA Girlfriend...

[dennisoo]

Correct me if I am wrong. I don't recall Tito
Santana ever slammed his opponent with a steel chair. I know many including good guys do it.
Remember Hulk Hogan once (as a face)
hit Ted "the million dollor man" Debiase from
behind. But Santana never stooped that low as far as
I can remember.

 

[Ds Ehhhd]

Actually Hogan was helping Ted Debiase get over a MPA .... the same way I want to help kkarn's friend

Tito "Your Friendly Neighborhood Latino" Santana

 

[7th Kai]

I doubt DiBiase needed a MPA. I vividly remember
he once bragged about Virgil , among other humiliating
duties, having to massage each and every inch of
his body. That was even shown in a film wherein
DiB iase was naked (important parts covered ) !

 

[Justin Walker]

Hi Kkarn...

It's obvious that you have only looking out for what is best for your friend, and you want to prevent him from making a really bad mistake. However, I am not sure that this is the way to accomplish what your goals.

Reading what you have written so far, you seem to be challenging him on every level. The guy is highly emotionally charged and no doubt having all the same thoughts as you are having, but has decided to live with it because she is somehow fulfilling some sort of role that he wants.

He has made his choice, and if he has not, you challenging him and calling him an idiot is not going to help your case. In fact, you are probably doing everything that this woman wants you to do, and are driving him even closer to her. Your constant attacts on her will only drive the wedge deeper between you and your friend, and strenghten his resolve against you.

Continuing this route will result with isolating your friend when he needs you most. When he finally wakes up and sees what's happening, he has no one there for him.

If you want to help, tell him that you think it's a mistake, but it's his life and if that's what he wants to do then that's his decision.

Hopefully, he will see what's really happening. If not, you keep your mouth shut, and go on living your life.

Good luck

 

[Amerikan Pirat]

S&E, thanks. Same advice I would give if I was outside the situaiton.

That said, I (and all your other close friends) are here for you for the long run.

kkarn/

 

[Gmoney1000]

Stage an intervention and send him off to rehab!

Some people just gotta learn the hard way.

As you say it is all about control. Some guys seek it, some girls seek it. Maybe your friend is a psychological masochist.

You can only bring a horse to water, if the fuckin' horse wants to die of thirst ... well fuck it, let the dumn bastard.

 

[ShortcutHerbal Goody]

I really hope he's reading, I know he lurks here for obvious reasons.

Some of the reaction would imply that he's blown all his money on multiple, long sessions in the MP - that probably wouldn't have been all that bad. Actually, the trouble started when it came out of the MP and turned into a relationship. Money can be replaced, and experience (good or bad) is healthy, however what I see now is a future being messed with and opportunities being thrown away.

A few months ago when I saw her last, only going after they got into a dispute and he said it was over, we had the wildest session yet. She suggested to me that part of her getting back at him for the misunderstanding was to offer me, and everyone else she had seen recently a great time. Yeah, twisted. Never saw her again, and won't. Have been trying since than to talk some serious sense into the boy.

kkarn/