advice req for long time bar girl on holiday!

[Ninth Gate]

Yup i`m sure the bar owners look forward to you coming for vacation from Florida and trying to get their staff without paying bar fine. It is a source of income for the bar as well as the girl with her drinks commission too remember.

Plenty of guys buy their drinks from 7/11 now, drink in the street and pick up a freelancer. Real cheap charlies boosting the struggling bar scene in this predicted forthcoming low season. Not.

 

[Erika USAF Mom]

The part I don't get is..... Back home it costs a couple of hundred dollars for an hour with an average looking h00ker who couldn't care less.
Spend the same money here and you get heaps of drinks for you and many for the ladies, plus dinner.. and a very willing partner to go out with in a taxi/tuk-tuk.
And still have change for breakfast in the morning. TIT:wai:
yet, some still quibble about $6

 

[CourtStar94]

You can count on seeing her family every day. Sure you can go jetski, go to disco, or other entertainment, but count on also meeting, greeting, and eating with her family. Lots. TGs love to spend time with their moms, especially, but also the rest of the family, too.

I have picked up girls on the Beach Road in Pattaya, then walk with them a short way down the beach and, surprise! I got introduced to their mom, dad, brothers, sisters, and Grandma, all there on vacation, hanging out at the beach, while she is working the street, and I get the introduction before we go to my hotel for short time.

Have also had BGs take me home to meet their Mom on the way to my hotel , or go to pick them up where they live for an evening at bars and restaurants, and have her say, "Can my Mom come along with us?" Got drunk with her and her mom. Once I met a girl I was seeing at a karaoke and her mom was there drinking whisky with her friends, and I bought them a bottle. When I said let's go get dinner, she asked if she could bring her Mom along. Being a newbie and thinking that a bit odd, I said, "No, I want to spend time with you and get to know you better." She said OK, but then made a long face at me the whole while we ate dinner.

There is an old saying, "Marry the girl, marry her family." This applies in LOS, but sometimes starts long before you marry her, even soon after you meet her, if they do not live far away.

 

[Stranger 4 You]

Some people go to the Church to pay respect....Les goes to the bar.

So Les, how does this show respect to the girl....how does making a cash payment so the girl can leave the bar, so you can shag her, give her respect ?....please enlighten me.....unless your Brad Pitt/Denver

 

[Geo]

Im always happy to buy lady drinks for the girls im talking to...however imho
150baht is a bit much in a bar that charges 70baht for a Singha .....more than double price... im sure the girls would get much more ld at say 120baht

 

[apples]

just wondering... if one of your girls came up to you and said a LT customer was coming in for a month, would you negotiate a monthly bf rate??

 

[Pompal 09.]

i cant remember when i use to bar fine my now wife for a long time if i paid the bf or not
i think there s/b room for negotiation, especially if you are hanging about and are going to frequent the bar

 

[vogonsrock]

First, make it a law to never stay with the same girl 2 days in a row. This includes the following morning after shacking up all night. It's a tough one to follow,

"The two day rule" This is a rule that a few of my mates follow and never seem to have any problems at all, but after two days you've got to be able to cut the strings, after all your pillow talk some might find this hard to do.


If cost is a big consideration, I advise to adjust your hours to be late. That means, getting sauced on your own and then hitting the bars around 1 or 2, then if that doesn't turn up anything, hit the streets for freelancers.


Taking into account the TDR, keep your lady on her second day until around seven in the evening, having not yet given her the cash, get pleasantly drunk with her throughout the day, your fill off boom boom and then let her go, stating that you need sleep and you might see her later..Sleep off the grog until about one or so, by which time your bird may have already been bar fined, then go on the lookout for a FL or even a BG, this late in the night there shouldn't be a BF.


The best girls in the hay are often not the best lookers, too, which is another reason to cut the chord when you wake up the next morning.

I'll have to agree with this, I find that a lot of the good looking birds are usually dancing, captivating you with the giration of there hips, after you've looked at her all evening and decided to BF her, she's usually only fit for the bed, and sleeping may be all she's interested in after givin you a couple of mandatory grunts..Pick a nice girl, although she may not have the lines or the looks of the stunners on top of the bar I find these to be some of the best, mind blowing as well as flute blowing experiences I've had..

 

[73777]

Negotiate a long term barfind...yes indeed. as long as everyone is happy.
A month off work is very different to 2 or 3 days. If she was on a salary she just wouldn't get paid unless he put up 400b every day, which isn't likely to happen.
Usually the regular customer has already put some money through the bar so it's fair all round. I would just ask her/him to come in for beers now and then... Some evil bars own the lady and will demand full compensation.

 

[NcS8986]

Two ways to look at it.. if the customer comes into the bar every night.. Then sure waive the bar fine, its made another way in custom..

Or if he is paying sporadic bar fines and comes in a lot.. Shout him a few more drinks, which usually makes for very happy customers too.

Plenty of ways to tackle the regular bar fine issue without it being mercenary.. But if he wants to arrive and have her vanish and pay the bar nothing, or have one fast beer.. Then bar fines are a compo.

 

[Charming Sociopath]

yeah, as LIL said in next post, i wouldnt expect the BF to waiced if i were just taking the girl away but i also am aware that the bar provides accom and such that newbies wouldnt know'i wouldnt even expect the whole bf to be waived even if i was coming in th bar most nights. 50% would be acceptable to me
but as you say, it all depends on the customer

 

[drasago]

I don't provide accom so often, just a few times...my girls put up the new staff in their rooms.
Once they find their feet they ladies get a cheap room (lovenest) themselves.
You would probably agree. . it's nice to share your digs with a few BG's now and then.:whistle:

 

[-whateva]

well,except when you come back to your apartment after a week in Cambodia and you trip over 10 girls shoes that are in the hall, and your place smells like a dead goat from their food 5555

but i got some new flowers and a new bedsheets out of the deal
oh, and my dog was fed more food than even a dog could eat 5555

 

[Noir]

Hee hee, shoes all over the place, except in the shoe rack:rofl:

 

[twoasonesfl]

Thats where the plates and pans go.

 

[Arraaghhhh...!!!]

If you come to Phuket, you should expect to apy Phuket prices. Yes, thee are cheaper destinations, but I still think there is great value here.

 

[sweet.caroline]

Doesn't work that way. Back home we visit our friends for the occasional having a few beers, glasses of wine, and share company or go to a bar for a few beers on the weekend. Some guys maybe get a date once is a while and get laid. Who can afford $200 for ******?? If you could even get one for $200. And why would you bother, even if you could afford them? 5555......

 

[Jujus L]

True, perhaps, but it wasn't always that way, not so long ago.