Chat After a few years of hobbying, I opened up to some old friends about it...

[Whitesnake1987]

I have no shame in sharing my hobby to my close friends. Those who r married or in a relationship envy me. Those who r single plays even harder me (SP, Strip club, after hr incall In C-Town) I only frequent spas, cos I need good massage due to my career. Started with legit, then gradually to “holi“. In spa, there’s always the “will she or will she not” factor involved and that’s the thrill of it.
Hey, as long as I’m happy, I wouldn’t give a fuck of what others think of me.

Tell your friends how much you spend a year to bang dirty whores. They will call you a loser behind you back guaranteed Baby

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[xtc27]

A couple of High School friends I grew up with know. We all use to go here and there, but wasn't often like 5 times max. Mostly strip clubs.

Then, when I was a college student and working part-time, a co-worker I use to chill with would frequent all the time. We became close buds so it was all jokes. Would always as if I got a BJ (This was before extras were a big thing).

More recently, one of my co-workers basically exposed he goes to spas and sees escorts but I laughed and played it off. One time a group of us go out for lunch and he mentioned something getting a hand job at a MP, All of us made that guilty laugh. Then another time he was showing me something in his phone notes and one of the list was Asian Sexy Babe with a few girls names on it. He played it off like "And here's some girls from ASB hehe" and moved on. Yeah, safe to say I wont be sharing any secrets with him.

Other than that I wouldn't dare shed light of this hobby to anyone. Don't really care about getting laughed at, It's the possibility of gossip I can't risk.

...dude can’t keep his own stuff secret.. don’t trust him w yrs...

 

[Blue58]

you guessed it. they were disappointed and withholding of disgust.

lets ask the question;
which is worst?

- a dirty police officer paid 85k a year of tax money to sit in a car with a running engine blasting A/C hiding behind a secluded building doing nothing,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone?

- legally becoming a "successful businessman" in the legal business of enslaving, torturing, and exploiting animals for their flesh to sell while producing the leading amount of pollution,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- manufacturing/selling of drugs (legal and illegal) that cripple individuals, families, and communities, while producing a byproduct that is dumped into forests and oceans illegally destroying mass ecosystems and life,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- legally becoming a "successful businesswoman" in any industry that extracts and exploits its resources from the land, oceans, seas, or forests (killing countless lives and ecosystems in the process) to manufacture a product to sell for self profit,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

the list goes ON. really question the sigma of these women (mothers, sisters, friends) who are actually trading their time and body for an earning rather than exploiting it by most other truly destructive capitalistic means, what is so bad or shameful about selling her body?
the only thing disgusting about a clean healthy women selling her body, is the dirty unshaven, bad breath unshowered dirt bag who takes advantage of these services and feels the NEED to get their every pennies worth by absolutely ravaging and fucking the shit out of the girl treating her as just a sack of meat to fuck because he paid for it...

you dont abuse your barber, or mechanic, taxi driver, or restaurant cook just because you paid them and feel to get every pennies worth? do you?
these women actually "work" and get abused, and subconsciously traumatized - but they dont need to, why would there be a need to abuse and traumatize your barber or taxi driver? why the poor girl allowing you sex then?

why so selfish of you? intercourse for the woman is painful if you go from 0 to 100 and ravage the shit out of her... thats actually scary, sad and evil.
this isnt porn, porn is fake and designed to be extreme.
feel the womans body and speak its language, ease into her and allow her to gradually adjust to your rhythm before you go from 0 to 100... when shes ready at 100, and you ravage her thats when she truly enjoys it and like you, making the experience better for you too

Far better to keep this deep, dark compulsion private and secret. We engage in this forum and even come to know each other in a very anonymous way. We can share and understand each other here, in this forum, but like dreams and deep desires, this "hobby" should be inward eyes only...

 

[johnbuyba]

i won't lie. i talked a guy at work into visiting a spa but implied that i had never visited any and was always considering visiting but never took the plunge. safe to say i persuaded him to visit a spa 10am saturday morning and he called me immediately after the session explaining everything. i just listened and said 'wow it sounds amazing maybe i'll give it a try'. however a few weeks later he told me how he regrets what he did and told me not to tell anyone about it Lol

 

[OG_funguy]

i won't lie. i talked a guy at work into visiting a spa but implied that i had never visited any and was always considering visiting but never took the plunge. safe to say i persuaded him to visit a spa 10am saturday morning and he called me immediately after the session explaining everything. i just listened and said 'wow it sounds amazing maybe i'll give it a try'. however a few weeks later he told me how he regrets what he did and told me not to tell anyone about it Lol

You sly dog...sounds like something I would do

 

[Flatulent Fox]

I'm in the same boat as most of you. I've never told anyone I know about my hobbying. I have a few friends I'm sure would be ok with it because I know they have dabbled too. Some have hooked up in strip clubs. One of them hooked up with SPs while we were on various bachelor party vacations. Another one introduced me to the hobby. He lives overseas in a country where it's legal and less stigmatized. I visited him and his friends would talk about it openly. One thing led to another and we ended up going to a brothel. I thought it would be a one time thing, then a few months later I hurt my neck, googled "massage", discovered MPs and review boards, and here I am now.

I often wonder if other guys I know are into it too. I have some friends and coworkers who are in a similar boat as me. 40ish, never married, and we never talk about dating or sex. I've thought about dropping hints or just admitting it to some friends, but like others have said here, the downside is probably worse than the upside. Better to commiserate with like-minded people here.

 

[Sybarite]

Tell your friends how much you spend a year to bang dirty whores. They will call you a loser behind you back guaranteed Baby

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How did you find this site, and why did you join?

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

This hobby is not some secret, mystical society. If you're married, it's dangerous to share this with your inner circle but if you're single and don't have all that many vices, this business makes for good conversation. Without even bringing it up myself, many co-workers and acquaintances have shared about seeing escorts, MPAs and getting extras at strip clubs. Of course, details of who they saw and the play-by-play are left out most of the time. This site exists for that.

My family and friends know I do it. I avoid discussing it with my family though not because of how supposedly taboo it is but because I'll never hear the end of it when it comes to how much I spend for the sessions.

 

[LittleCarrot]

I don’t know about that bro. Honestly paying for it is a dirt bag thing. Just as dirty as it is for these hoes to be out there letting god knows how many of us lfk,dfk, daty, cim etc.

These hoes do not enjoy it. It’s like you being paid 100 to fuck a fat ugly hairy ass bitch. Would you enjoy it? Hell naw.

dudes who pick up girls at bars don’t have to spend 140 every time to nail a chick.

being a dirt bag has nothing to do with paying for it, or getting it naturally (from picking up girls).
my point is, how you treat the other person and your intentions.

just because youre paying a barber for a service, dont mean you can use him as an outlet and cuss him out and order him around for the 20 mins hes doing your hair.
you still need to treat him/her with the same respect you expect them to treat you with.

and as for picking up girls just to fuck them, youre a dirt bag if your intentions are just to lure them in with cunning sweet words to attain your goal of fucking them, then dumping them once you get it.
but if your intention is to actually care for, and develop a relationship with the girl youre trying to pick up- then thats all honesty and real, not cunning or deceptive or trying to use them (heart breaking)

 

[OG_funguy]

being a dirt bag has nothing to do with paying for it, or getting it naturally (from picking up girls).
my point is, how you treat the other person and your intentions.

just because youre paying a barber for a service, dont mean you can use him as an outlet and cuss him out and order him around for the 20 mins hes doing your hair.
you still need to treat him/her with the same respect you expect them to treat you with.

and as for picking up girls just to fuck them, youre a dirt bag if your intentions are just to lure them in with cunning sweet words to attain your goal of fucking them, then dumping them once you get it.
but if your intention is to actually care for, and develop a relationship with the girl youre trying to pick up- then thats all honesty and real, not cunning or deceptive or trying to use them (heart breaking)

Wow, you're a good dude , want to have lunch?

 

[Bustanut]

being a dirt bag has nothing to do with paying for it, or getting it naturally (from picking up girls).
my point is, how you treat the other person and your intentions.

just because youre paying a barber for a service, dont mean you can use him as an outlet and cuss him out and order him around for the 20 mins hes doing your hair.
you still need to treat him/her with the same respect you expect them to treat you with.

and as for picking up girls just to fuck them, youre a dirt bag if your intentions are just to lure them in with cunning sweet words to attain your goal of fucking them, then dumping them once you get it.
but if your intention is to actually care for, and develop a relationship with the girl youre trying to pick up- then thats all honesty and real, not cunning or deceptive or trying to use them (heart breaking)

Bro you mean to tell me you’re paying for Sex and your intention is to care for them and develop a relationship with the girl? I’m sorry homie but are you on crack? The girl would never give you the time of day outside of a parlour. Hence the reason why you’re paying for it. What type of knob goes to a whore house and wants to care for a chick and develop a relationship???? Only an imbecile would do this. Honesty and real is you and everyone else on this forum knowing that they are paying for whores and their Pussy period. This dumb shit about oh blah blah blah a barber and his service you wouldn’t treat them like crap etc etc. You’re using the whore as outlet a sexual Fkn outlet because you’re tired of wacking it. Are you not ? Come on fam selling your body vs selling a hair cut? The fk? So let’s put it like this... you pay 140 to what treat the girl like gold? What you think by you sticking your little carrot in her or her sucking your dick is treating her good? It’s against her own will if it wasn’t for the money. You think girls do this because they like it ? Or they want to look for something real and genuine ?Holy Fk bro take Tylenol 3 for fks sake. Barbers cut because they like it they enjoy. Whores do it for money period. Fk bro you got to be a Fkn moron to think otherwise. Ppl go in there to bustanut and nothing else. No girl would give you a relationship or give two fucks about you if you didn’t open up your wallet period.

 

[OG_funguy]

Don't worry littlecarrot...you are young and a nice dude. You can find love if you want to...

 

[OleDirtyBastard]

Unless you're a frat guy who is going to Massage Parlors with buddies after a night at the strip club, the hobby is a solitary one. Loneliness is the triggering emotion that gives me the "itch" to start looking to see who's working at my favorite MPs. I'm always the most tempted to go after the end of a social night when I say goodbye to friends or if I'm left alone at home for an extended period of time without the family. I figured this out for myself with the help of a therapist and wouldn't be surprised if a few others in this group are wired the same way - especially the guys who develop emotional connections to one MPA.

Don't get me wrong, I definitely also go because of the fun, variety and physical enjoyment but I've definitely recognized it as an addictive behavior that has taken a toll on my bank account and other aspects of my life. I have had to learn to understand why I do it so that I can keep it under control.

 

[LittleCarrot]

Bro you mean to tell me you’re paying for Sex and your intention is to care for them and develop a relationship with the girl? I’m sorry homie but are you on crack? The girl would never give you the time of day outside of a parlour. Hence the reason why you’re paying for it. What type of knob goes to a whore house and wants to care for a chick and develop a relationship???? Only an imbecile would do this. Honesty and real is you and everyone else on this forum knowing that they are paying for whores and their Pussy period. This dumb shit about oh blah blah blah a barber and his service you wouldn’t treat them like crap etc etc. You’re using the whore as outlet a sexual Fkn outlet because you’re tired of wacking it. Are you not ? Come on fam selling your body vs selling a hair cut? The fk? So let’s put it like this... you pay 140 to what treat the girl like gold? What you think by you sticking your little carrot in her or her sucking your dick is treating her good? It’s against her own will if it wasn’t for the money. You think girls do this because they like it ? Or they want to look for something real and genuine ?Holy Fk bro take Tylenol 3 for fks sake. Barbers cut because they like it they enjoy. Whores do it for money period. Fk bro you got to be a Fkn moron to think otherwise. Ppl go in there to bustanut and nothing else. No girl would give you a relationship or give two fucks about you if you didn’t open up your wallet period.

hahaha... knowledge is only as valuable as a recipients ability to receive it.
you are putting a lot of words in my mouth that i did not state. just re read what i have stated, and take note on what i havent stated to help yourself untangle your misunderstanding.

you can treat these women however you want. you can ravage and rip them apart and make them bleed, tear their vaginal wall and send them to the E.R.
you can have mutually enjoyable sex with them, with the standard respect you should give to any human being who has not offended you or done you wrong.

im not the type to flex, but just to help you understand better- all the MPAs ive been with, all love me, not because of what i express verbally (i dont speak much, preferably not at all), but because of what i express physically. through the literal connection of our bodies in communication alone, she understand that i respect her, by respecting her most sensitive body parts, easing into a rhythm that she enjoys, as well as myself, allowing mutual climate that heightens both people. no words need to be spoken for respect and appreciation to be established. the MPAs who i do see, enjoy and look forward to our meetings.

they and i both know that many dirtbags see them as nothing more than meat, they ram their hard cocks into their sensitive vag that hasnt had any time to adapt to an immediate pounding, only causes them discomfort and most often times pain if the girl is small.

bro you can do what you want. all i wish for as my greatest intention in my lifetime is global peace, and to attain that, i simply try to be and advocate the change i want to see.

i treat everyone with respect. not just MPAs..

 

[itzyourz]

On the subject of friends knowing of this hobby, none of my friends know that I hobby. But, I always find it strange whenever I walk into a MP, how often I see a group of guys that are there together. Like 2-4 of them standing around the lobby waiting for MPA's to come say hello. Or have one guy go in and his friend waits in the car. Must be really tight bros.

 

[Bustanut]

Lololol

beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Can’t educate one who doesn’t wanna learn. What a monkey sees is what a monkey does.

I’m going off of what you wrote plain and simple. There’s no misunderstanding when it comes to hoes and you paying for them.
Question would you be ok if your mom worked at a fuck shop?

let me quote you and respond this way so you get it


“you can have mutually enjoyable sex with them, with the standard respect you should give to any human being who has not offended you or done you wrong.“

Who the fk respects whores they have to pay to have sex with. You’re degrading women everytime you go in these fuck shops and pay to fuck them.


“all the MPAs ive been with, all love me, not because of what i express verbally (i dont speak much, preferably not at all), but because of what i express physically. through the literal connection of our bodies in communication alone, she understand that i respect her, by respecting her most sensitive body parts,”

LOLOLOLOL my friend all of these whores love your WALLET and not you. Any other john on this board can tell you that. You told me you fell hard for a whore and needed to take a break because she wasn’t feeling you the same way you were feeling her. So what does that tell you You don’t speak much? Look how much you’re typing that’s an indication of a motor mouth if you ask me... vroom vroom 🏎 .


you can’t respect someone by paying for sex. You think these whores respect you for paying for their pussy? Hell nawwwwyeeeeehawwww. They look at you like a Fkn sucka.

the fact that you’re trying to Talk about this bullshit connection and respect whores on here is mind boggling. Going off of what you wrote you say you respect them and there’s nothing Wrong with what they do.....

Then why the fuck are you on this site hiding yourself and calling yourself little carrot? Why don’t you go tell your mom and dad over dim sum that you hobby. Tell them how you pay for sex and respect whores. Let us know how that goes. There’s a reason why you and everyone here keeps it a secret son. You don’t get that I feel bad for you bro. I really do

hahaha... knowledge is only as valuable as a recipients ability to receive it.
you are putting a lot of words in my mouth that i did not state. just re read what i have stated, and take note on what i havent stated to help yourself untangle your misunderstanding.

you can treat these women however you want. you can ravage and rip them apart and make them bleed, tear their vaginal wall and send them to the E.R.
you can have mutually enjoyable sex with them, with the standard respect you should give to any human being who has not offended you or done you wrong.

im not the type to flex, but just to help you understand better- all the MPAs ive been with, all love me, not because of what i express verbally (i dont speak much, preferably not at all), but because of what i express physically. through the literal connection of our bodies in communication alone, she understand that i respect her, by respecting her most sensitive body parts, easing into a rhythm that she enjoys, as well as myself, allowing mutual climate that heightens both people. no words need to be spoken for respect and appreciation to be established. the MPAs who i do see, enjoy and look forward to our meetings.

they and i both know that many dirtbags see them as nothing more than meat, they ram their hard cocks into their sensitive vag that hasnt had any time to adapt to an immediate pounding, only causes them discomfort and most often times pain if the girl is


bro you can do what you want. all i wish for as my greatest intention in my lifetime is global peace, and to attain that, i simply try to be and advocate the change i want to see.

i treat everyone with respect. not just MPAs..

hahaha... knowledge is only as valuable as a recipients ability to receive it.
you are putting a lot of words in my mouth that i did not state. just re read what i have stated, and take note on what i havent stated to help yourself untangle your misunderstanding.

you can treat these women however you want. you can ravage and rip them apart and make them bleed, tear their vaginal wall and send them to the E.R.
you can have mutually enjoyable sex with them, with the standard respect you should give to any human being who has not offended you or done you wrong.

im not the type to flex, but just to help you understand better- all the MPAs ive been with, all love me, not because of what i express verbally (i dont speak much, preferably not at all), but because of what i express physically. through the literal connection of our bodies in communication alone, she understand that i respect her, by respecting her most sensitive body parts, easing into a rhythm that she enjoys, as well as myself, allowing mutual climate that heightens both people. no words need to be spoken for respect and appreciation to be established. the MPAs who i do see, enjoy and look forward to our meetings.

they and i both know that many dirtbags see them as nothing more than meat, they ram their hard cocks into their sensitive vag that hasnt had any time to adapt to an immediate pounding, only causes them discomfort and most often times pain if the girl is small.

bro you can do what you want. all i wish for as my greatest intention in my lifetime is global peace, and to attain that, i simply try to be and advocate the change i want to see.

i treat everyone with respect. not just MPAs..

 

[Toomanymiles]

This one young girl I banged asked me if I had any other sexual partners, was having issues with my ole lady, and I said yes I smashed a few strippers lately. She asked why and I said they are convenient and highly skilled. Suffice to say I still smashed her after agreeing to be her boyfriend before the act, but I would consider that admitting hobbying would it not? I also stopped being her boyfriend shortly after. Young civies and their narrow view of the world. Lol

 

[snoopdoggie]

This hobby is not some secret, mystical society. If you're married, it's dangerous to share this with your inner circle but if you're single and don't have all that many vices, this business makes for good conversation. Without even bringing it up myself, many co-workers and acquaintances have shared about seeing escorts, MPAs and getting extras at strip clubs. Of course, details of who they saw and the play-by-play are left out most of the time. This site exists for that.

My family and friends know I do it. I avoid discussing it with my family though not because of how supposedly taboo it is but because I'll never hear the end of it when it comes to how much I spend for the sessions.

How did your family and friends find out? Did you tell them? If you don't want them to scold you about the money you're spending, then you shouldn't have told them about it. But it's too late now. You can't turn back time, unless you get help from Doc Brown.

 

[Toomanymiles]

I should have noted in my previous post I admitted to my friends (who go more than me)

 

[Bustanut]

that’s why we all kept it a secret baby kekekke

Tell your friends how much you spend a year to bang dirty whores. They will call you a loser behind you back guaranteed Baby

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