I would say it's like any situation I have with the opposite sex. Some I want to bang and some I enjoy hanging out with. In my last thread I mentioned a GFE that to me was really great, but also did some mongering. This one BG I had was a total 10 (GFE was an 8 on looks but a 10 on companionship). I did ST with BG, she was great, but that's all I wanted. Only 2 trips to LOS and did both GFE and BM. 70/30 for me. I go back in december and maybe pick up where I left off with the GFE. I have many numbers, though.