Dudelio
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People have different relationships statuses, experience, expectations, concerns, understanding. Is it that surprising that boundaries vary among people? The risks will always be greater than 0 unless you stay home. Some are probably aware of the risks but feel that it's worth it. For others, their boundaries may change over time.I’m just trying to understand the mentality… do people just not think/worry about it? Or get tested a lot? I did it once long ago from being pressured by the attendant (not from here) but was nervous for weeks after, so I’ve avoided ever doing it again.
It almost seems less safe to me than fs, because I doubt anyone is putting on a rubber for a bs. Maybe I am too cautious and missing out, feel free to enlighten me.
If you are worried, you should 100% stay within your boundaries. Don't do something you'll regret later, just because another person did it. Enjoy this hobby in a way that's a positive experience to yourself.
I can't really enlighten you, that's a very personal decision and comfort level that you need to figure out for yourself. Which will happen, in time, the longer you stay in this hobby. Good luck!
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