I'm very confused by this post. OK, I haven't been following as close as you other guys, but blissful, you are a woman right?
And you date women right?
And yet you have to ask them to go down on you?
OK, so I don't know too many dykes, but from what I've read, DATY and DIGITS are standard things for you girls isn't it?
So why would you need to ask?