Attendant Arousal - Fact or Fiction

[asking and answering]

Yes

and I will remember them fondly until I draw my last breath.

ITS

 

[CAROLE]

I have been very fortunate to have met some very lovely and seemingly sincere mpa. I strongly believed that a connection was made and the sessions that I enjoyed were great because of that.

I have been around for quite some time and I have and still do maintain a good friendship with a couple of mpa outside of their working life.

There have been only a small percentage of mpa that I have seen that I would never repeat with and that is becuase they were mechanical in providing their service and were more interested in either rushing a client out the door/and upselling services.

The mpa that I do enjoy tend to be more patient and seem to enjoy the session as much as I do.

 

[vanpersie]

Sorry I'm missing your point.

 

[ral]

It sounds so much like the Tea Master. What have you done with Rusty?

Romantic sessions are going to be novel item given limited supply (ie: in-tuned MPAs who counters the standard assembly line - get in, release and next! type.)

 

[cannot_remember_chit]

You continue to surprise me. Given your small frame, sure pack a lot of punches. Your writing style portray a gentle yet direct personality. Figured you to be experimental 'L' on the side and slighty Dom with the men.

Yup, that's correct. I can be extremely gentle and extremely direct.
I guess as far as the session's are involved, as an mpa you do have to be a little
directional, I don't know if Dom's the word. But personal life,
submissive all the way. I've been with 1 or 2 women and the first time she
was the more dominant, in control, she pratically raped me. lol. The second time,
she was more cute and sweet and innocent so I was the more dominant.
As far as the "gentle" in the sessions, I've been told that when it comes to the
grand finale, I'm extremely gentle.

 

[Ashley]

I actually did visit your website.I guess nobody told you how how horribly pale skin looks in photographs.



We all know how to read between the lines, so you're not fooling anyone with what "services" you offer.




You already told us you only see massageplanet.net members.Which means you see guys who are interested in high mileage and the biggest bang for their buck.If you feel better calling them and yourself classy and upscale because of that, go right ahead.

It's just funny how you don't realize how stupid you make yourself look when you imply that you're better than any girl who chooses to work in a spa. When in reality, you have never worked at an upscale spa and don't know what it's like ( please don't try to convince us that Josephines and that other spa you worked at are upscale, cause they're not).

You have no clue what an upscale spa is, nor will you ever, cause you're simply an average looking girl who is offering high mileage to massageplanet.net clients in order to get by.

Why would a massageplanet.net member choose to see you over one of the top girls at HFH/IT/SRM/ALLURE?

Caue you're more attractive? Nope.

Cause you have a better personality? Nope.As you've proved in this thread your an egotistical woman who thinks she's better than any MPA who works in a spa.

Cause you're high mileage? DING, DING, DING. Johnny, tell him what he's won. By you not working at a spa you're able to offer ultra high mileage that you wouldn't be able to get away with if you worked at a spa. This high mileage is what brings you in massageplanet.net members.

Plus, the way you self promote yourself is embarassing. If you're good, you don't need to blow your horn, guys will find you and spread the word. The reason you slef promote so heavily is because you know that if you don't, nobody will come and see you.

 

[Adnan Sallam]

There is an old joke:

Question: How do you know if a woman is having an orgasm?

Answer: Who cares?

I really don't care if an MPA, or even a girlfriend for that matter, is faking. Real or fake, it's a win-win situation.

If it's for real, then you pleased her, way to go stud!

If it's fake, she did it to please you, what great service!
At least she didn't talk about laundry during the finish.

Personally, I don't try to pleasure the MPA. I don't feel that paying for a NR entitles me to digits or DATY, and the MPA would pretty much have to sit on my hand or face to get any.

In answer to Red's question, there is only one MPA that I knew for sure enjoyed my company, without entirely crossing the MPA-client line. We would go to the local coffee shop for an hour or two either before or after the session. Also, once she learned that I was a starving student, she didn't accept cash payment, and the thing I bartered didn't cost me a cent and had almost no cash value. Although the massages were incredible (not in a high mileage sense), looking back, I also value the wonderful conversations we had over coffee.

 

[Jessi]

Holy drama festival.

I think I actually really aroused an attendant once, because it surprised the hell out of me when it happened.

 

[Wretched Bonsai]

Not I. That is to say I am not classy and upscale. I'm a barbarian deep within the forests of the north, where it snows constantly. I am sharpening my battle axe at the blacksmith, awaiting the battle that I am destined to parttake in.

*sharpens axe slowly and meticulously*

 

[Pompal 09.]

You can't expect each girl to be 'excited' for every massage she provides. We are not machines. However, sometimes with the right circumstances, and the right amount of cleanliness and manners, and sexiness....well 10 out of 1000....you haven't met the right girls yet

 

[Belinda]

Until Goodtime get to see Angeline, Goodtime must practice muscle control.

Man, her photos are not helping! Got to put away those Taoist pictorials. The wheelbarrow. The lotus cuddle, aka sitting spoon but face-to-face. Reverse Dragon & Phoenix. And the Smiling Buddha (aka, Goodtime ha ha)...

 

[Synsane]

As I am reading through the reply's on this thread I can see that many
of you, through no fault of your own, responded to this thread in many
different forms. I even re-read my original thread, to see if I was
indicating something else. I thought, what I was asking was if anyone
sees an mpa or has seen an mpa who definately enjoys you & likewise.
I see how the word arousal has put a spin on the question, and although
it's still a good question, I was not, per say, speaking of orgasm's.

I said "Attendant Arousal - Fact or Fiction", but I mean, and many of
you picked up on it - the "realness" of the session. She really likes you.
Not outside of the MP, not pertaining to future relationships, but
she actually enjoys seeing you. You are her customer at that moment,
but for whatever reason, 1. She's already has an SO 2. She has a rule
about dating customers 3. She's afraid to approach you
4. She doesn't want a relationship at that time
5. She thinks your attached and not interested
6. She just wants to keep the time in the room with you, IN THE ROOM

Whatever the reason, the session she has with you, is like being with
a guy (not boyfriend) that you occasionally in your life, call up, get together,
have dinner, laughs, then intimacy. Someone you like, someone for that 1/2 /hour
you can be real with. Your funny, your nice, you think the same,
have the same interests, and enjoy the intimacy aspect just as much.
Just because the money is exchanged, and
continue's to be exchanged, doesn't mean the mpa doesn't enjoy you.
If a woman is in sales, and she sells you a product, and you
like her and she likes you, you flirt whenever you meet at the office, is it
unfathomable that because you still talk business, and she is still selling you
that product that she cannot like you because you are still conducting business?
She can still like you and supply you with your product, without taking it outside! You know, a secret attraction. I can't understand how some men could say "No, she's
just playing with me, so I continue to buy her product" Of course, that could very well be the case sometimes, but not all the time. No way.
That's when I start to think that maybe this man has issues with the constant thought that all females are out to use and abuse them.
The same thoughts go for some women as well, believe me, I see it, and hear it!

I think Goodtime touched on this issue in another thread.
He hated it when the mpa only thought he was a perv in the session when he just
wants to talk or have a nice time.

Your mpa may not to be able to take things further, she may not want to take
things further, it doesn't mean that unless your get her out of the MP, in her apt making love to her, that this is the only sign of true affection. I find some men,( I said some), write women off so quickly, if they don't get her phone # at that cafe or cinema that moment, well then forget it. All hope is lost. God forbid he mention
he will be at that cafe same time next week, so she might reconsider. That
stuff is so exciting to women, right away, the women is taken a back. "Wow,
every guy begs for my #, asks for date etc....this guy introduced himself,
we chatted and he actually walked away from me without asking me for my
phone #, he said he comes here every week. Hmmm. She smells a challenge. She's interested. Your different. And she admits to herself that she did enjoy talking to
him and found him to be a cool guy. That will simmer in her mind. And she may
show up next week to see what your about, because you've already showed her
that of all the hundred's of requests she gets a year for phone #'s and dates etc...
that you have approached her differently.

I used the word arousal, because although it is deemed by many people
a "sexual" word, in literature, porno etc...the word arousal, as VBB said,
can mean arousal physically, mentally, emotionally etc....but I did mean
it almost how it was refered to, but a little two-fold, or sorry, three fold.
Physically, mentally & emotionally. She enjoys you physically, engages in conversations
with you mentally, and you share the same emotions.

I wrote this real late, so forgive and please disagree if you feel necessary.
I am always open to different opinions, and I love analyzing people's different
personality's. Please don't refrain from explaining your points!

 

[great gig in the sky]

I think this can definately happen. There is a MPA i've seen a few times who I felt a good connection with. We made each other laugh, and i found our sessions together to be very passionate. One day I overheard her talking to a few MPAs about me. I didn't want to eavesdrop, but i couldn't help it. She commented on my looks, my massage technique, my stamina... etc... all very positively. She also stated how much she loved seeing me. So i know that she isn't "faking it" while we have our sessions.

With that being said, i've also dated a MPA. The relationship is over now, however, i can assure you she was not faking a good time with me either

 

[Hannah G]

...that attendant arousal is fact, or at least, it is in certain cases...such as the ones I described...perhaps I am missing the initial point of this thread...if so, apologies for my narcississitic (sp?) rant...

Baron

 

[rabbithorsegirl]

Here's what Angelina will probably say.

" being indy allows me to spend more quality time with her clients without managers rushing me. How horribly us girls are treated, how unfocused on customer service that spa's are. My service is far superior to that of what spa's offer."

 

[d_r_siva]

Ah, a beautiful end to a wonderful day.

Usher's "You remind me" of a girl I once knew.
Nivea's Never had a girl like me (RS's theme song)

P.S.: Do inform Goodtime of future bi-encounter. Better yet, Goodtime will help check her out. Afterall, I'm an occasional fan of Showcase's The 'L' word.
The other night Showcase's Real Sex reran an old episode of strap-on at L parties, I watch for research purpose. Ha ha.

BTW, I love your sig quote.

 

[Samantha Boyle]

Or you could just apply some self-control, use logical deconstruction of your desires and emotions and save yourself some dough in the process.

 

[KoKo]

Oh sorry. Yes you are right. That was the point of the thread.

Sorry

 

[Pompal 09.]

Classy and upscale vs. manly barbarian......how's a girl to choose?

 

[musicseawater]

Ok relax now Braveheart. (someone seem jealous)