Awkward public meeting

[JOYCLEICOGY]

Around 5 years ago, I was waiting at a Brookstone store to meet my girlfriend (who by the way, was a former spa girl - and crazy I might add). Anyway, since my girlfriend was always notoriously late, I tried to keep myself from being bored to death by sampling all their ridiculously overpriced but useless junk. Seriously, who needs a $100 'memory foam' pillow? So while I was waiting, I sat in one of those weirdly uncomfortable leather massage roller chairs. And who sits right next to me? Some girl from one of those ridiculously overpriced but useless massage services... I think her name was Donna. Oh, and did I mention - that's where I met that previous girlfriend. Perfect storm. So she's sitting in the next chair with some dopey looking dude with a big smile, when in walks my girlfriend who makes a big entrance as she gives me a hug. Boom, the girl next to me looks over and recognizes me - and my girlfriend. But my girlfriend is too DENSE to recognize Donna - either that, or she just pretended not to notice. I figured, who cares? They were both in the same game, right? So I get up to leave and as I'm walking out the door, I glance back at Donna and the dude and see them both looking at us, and the dude looking... pissed. Oh well.

 

[Sad Eyed Jokerman]

Yes,                                                                                     grifforama, I think you are worried about nothing. If she already saw you and didn't cause a problem then she is being professional. Some girls are rock heads and will come over to you and greet you, but most pros know not to do that. She's already proven she is one of those, so: No worries.

 

[exxed]

This type of stuff happens from time to time. It appears that based on what you shared with us, that you both handled the situation well. Of course, it would not be a foul to let her know that you would like her to follow the same approach if it takes place in the future.

 

[Chris Hansen]

I have no idea what this means. Do you mean a "level of discretion"? You said she did not acknowledge you, so how exactly did she behave in an indiscreet manner? This post is nonsensical to me. I do not understand what the problem is or how it was awkward. In Montreal, I have seen escorts I have met on the street with their friends, and I did not say anything to them. That is the discreet thing to do. I am really not sure what the awkwardness was. Your post fails to convey it.

 

[StyncKeyncBot]

Here's one from a thread in the CT Massage Forum:

"My wife and I were in Flushing a few weeks ago and sure enough, who comes walking across the big parking lot on Union? Soo. She smiles and waves and my wife says, "Who's that?"

"Beats me, baby. You know how all us white guys look alike."

That was a close one."

Another time, we were in Korydong (the bakery near the big parking lot in Flushing) and who's sitting at a nearby table? Some K-girl I had been fooling around with at a R&T in Bristol, CT. We looked at each other and smiled. My wife didn't see a thing.

I can't recount the number of times I've passed AMP girls I've been with while we're down there; but it's been more than a few.

A little nerve-wracking; which is one of the reasons I've hung up my cleats. At some point, you get tired of sneaking around. Even if your wife is an AMP girl.

 

[IamTheBest]

went out with my white girlfreind, when i ran into my atf russian provider. frankly it excited me

 

[affaireangel]

wow, you truly contemplated ruining her life over $50? I've been shorted that much 2x. One, months later came back to see me and paid me back without me even asking, an honest mistake. Another was a well established member who smelled faintly of alcohol, and gave me the bs line that there was a $50 in there (unfortunately I didn't count the $ until he left-my mistake, which is why I have to take some responibility for it), when I hadn't even mentioned yet how much he shorted me, then I never heard from him again. I wrote him a couple polite emails letting him know how to rectify it, and never heard back, and I just dropped it. Its the chance you take meeting people this way. Live and learn. But to honestly truly think about ruining her life over that amt is just scary. And how is it she ripped you off for $50? Did you not count and leave her the money? Did you feel shorted in time? Because that's a lot different then being a thief. She may have felt you were done. There are numerous things, but to be "ripped off $50 by a provider" just doesn't sound right.

 

[jeebs]

I've had a few "outside" meetings, both intentional and not. The best one, by far was when I was seeing a provider outside working hours. I'd gotten fairly friendly with her and met her at her place in Flushing to take her out to dinner. For the first time, I meet her roommate...

Yup. She had also worked at the same place I actually knew her before the girl I was seeing. She made no sign that she recognized me at all, and I really think she didn't. It was possible as it had been months before. Either way, she came out to dinner with us so I had the experience of sitting at the table with two woman I'd fucked and who both seemed to have no idea.

 

[Kris Bian]

Was with my chinese wife at a banquet in Flushing. One of the girls servicing my table had serviced me before . She kept staring at me and was pretty freaking obvious. My wife teased me that "all the asian girls love you." I was glad to leave.

 

[redlionlantern4]

Worse awkward meeting was a month ago, bumping into Kelly, used to be known as SHerrytiffanytaylor! I played with her a few times and then she ripped me off of 50 bucks. We were in a NY restaurant and she was eating with her husband. I felt the urge to go over and make her life hell by introducing myself, tell her how great she was and she was worth the 500 bucks. But the nice guy in me made me sit and finish my dinner.

I think that is the worse thing, bumping into an escort who screwed you in a non sexual way!

 

[Socrates]

No need to worry she knows what's up.

 

[Wickie W]

For a past discussion on how others have handled it, here is a thread about it:

http://www.massageplanet.com/forum/showthread.php?14693-Ever-run-into-or-recognize-a-provider-in-real-life/page2&highlight=public+meeting+provider

 

[chee]

It looks like she already knows how to handle these situations. It was probably more awkward for you than it was for her. Think about it, she is more likely to meet to run into clients than you are to run into providers!

 

[michel foucault]

This has happened to me Twice..Once it was Christmas time 2 years ago i took my mother to a play and saw a provider that i had just seen a few weeks before,we smiled at each other But said nothing so no one even noticed anything..The other time did not go over as well lol it was at a club in long island with My ex and a whole crew of friends ran into a provider i had seen a few times ( years ago i had regulars) now im a one hit wonder..she was Nicely buzzed and came over to me and called me by my real name and gave me a big hug and kiss lmao...My boys knew what was up and I had to tell me girl some lame story that she was someone i dated years ago blah blah blah it was very embarrassing

 

[Miles]

So, I bumped into a well known massage therapist over the weekend.
I didn't say anything and neither did she. We didn't even acknowledge each other, although I'm sure she recognized me.
I'm not going to go into this any further, but should I mention this to the person concerned and ask that she keeps a level of discrepancy ?
It's highly likely that we may encounter each other again, and I could be with my SO.