Due to a few things that have been said recently I want once more to try and clear something up. The thread by mopiko about stopping the bs in the threads...
When I write up here about mundane things its only because so many of the guys up here write and ask me why I havent "blogged" up here as often as I use to.
Some are unsettled and angry because they feel this is not the place and after going through this thread, I reluctantly have to agree that I am in the wrong on this one. I just enjoy so much hearing your opinions and views on things and I love what I do SO VERY MUCH that I consider many of you actual friends and ...well, real people who have touched my life in many ways. THat being said, I understand that this IS a review thread and I shouldnt be clogging it up.
However, I MUST defend myself on one thing. A couple of angry guys here have said that my fans come to my defense when anyone says anything negative.
I beg to differ. Its not that way and if you read closely you will see that the guys saying this over and over never really have any real reviews and they read what maybe 2 out of 100 are saying and jump on that to sound like their complaint is legitimate, for instance, "Oh, jodi tries to get sympathy from the mongers with her writing."
I think my ACTUAL REVIEWS speak for themselves.
I havent seen guys really jumping to my defense specifically because I have asked many NOT TO DO THAT.
Some have even told me, "I read what so and so wrote and I wanted to contradict that statement but you get persecuted if anyone dares to defend you." The times guys have "defended" me in any way is usually because someone has said something very mean and very nasty, not in a REVIEW but simply to be a dick.
ANother example just so you guys can be aware of the things that go on up here.
I once saw a guy a while back who became so agitated and angry that I would not drink myself drunk with him and do full service that he became belligerent and unfortunately I had to ask him to leave.
Phone call after phone call and threatening emails ensued.
"Im going to ruin you bitch. WHORE. Im going to ruin your reputation. Nobody is going to want to see you by the time Im through with you." Most of us as providers have faced this kind of unwanted attention at one time or another.
Then someone comes to see me a couple months later and after a few very happy sessions, he confesses he has a friend who asked him to help him "ruin" me. THe guy was so sweet and felt so badly. He told me he thought we had alot of fun and in the end couldnt do what his coworker had asked, which was to routinely, under different screen names, plant negative thoughts and doubt about me.
Im not saying Im perfect and Im DEFINATELY not trying to act persecuted and get sympathy...but you guys should be aware that there are men who are so offended that you turn them down that they will go to great lengths to make you look bad.
99% of you are wonderful men and I respect those of you who have earned my respect. Take things being said with a grain of salt. One gentleman recently responded to someone who recommended me by saying, "Jodi wasnt my cup of tea". I LOVE it when people are honest and I didnt argue in any way because he was being sincere and saying it how it is and I have no right to get mad because someone didnt find me hot! Everyone has a different version of hot and I am not offended if I am not someones cup of tea lol.
So I felt I just had to say this and tell you all, Please dont ever be afraid to say what you think about a session with me if you did not find it to your liking- This is a review board and I get it!
For those of you who have asked to keep reading my "thoughts" I will send you my blog addy on myspace and from now on keep my personal life off of here because Mopiko was right about that, its a review site and Im just clogging it up.
Have a good day guys and see you soon!