Listen Mate . . .
How ever you may percieve the average Thai Bargirl, they are all Human, just the same as us. I get the feeling that you seem to treat them as sub-human when on holiday in Thailand.
They all have have a living to make (naturally to them, in the easiest way possible). This is no reason to over-do the Customer - Supplier relationship.
I have had many, manyThai ladies on numerous trips to Thailand, and I can honestly say that I have never abused any of them, nor have I ever embarrassed them in the company of their friends, by mauling them like an animal, as many Farangs tend to do in public.
Why is it necessary anyway ? You know damn well that what you want is going to be right there when you take them to your Hotel. I think you need to grow-up quite a bit, maybe then will you realise that Thailand is a lot more than just being able to act like a complete asshole, and that these ladies are just trying to earn a crust'.
Just remember that there are many more well-experienced contributors to this Forum than yourself.
Cheers
Pdm3
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