Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[aa84aa]

When I first started hobbying, it costs $40 all in for massage + happy ending. Full service with gorgeous Russian girls was $100 all in. Took a long break and when I started again, I was paying $100 all in for massage + HE. I didn’t know about this site and always paid $100 total. You would be surprised what you can get for that lol…many girls had no problems getting completely naked for that amount. Got close to one girl and she just started doing BBBJ for me one day (I never even asked for it). I still see her regularly today. Of course, after discovering this site, I am much more in tune with market rates now

I remember when I could see an escort for $100 for an hour, with it going up to $120 a year or two later. Also concur in first discovering massages that offered a happy ending for $40.

Those golden years are the memories that keep us grounded, also recalling the number of girls who have retired on good and not so good terms.

 

[kittyhound69]

And some are still working lol

 

[OG_funguy]

And some are still working lol

Who can name some of the girls that have been in this business the longest and still working?

Maybe Superior Nancy, BN Coco, Acewell Julia, that lady by Mt. Pleasant, Sweet Alice, Catherine...I'm sure there are others

 

[Darke Steele]

I find it adorable when one of your weekly rotation girls who sees 3-12 men per day gives you permission to see other MPAs when she goes on vacation.

 

[Baldee]

Who can name some of the girls that have been in this business the longest and still working?

Maybe Superior Nancy, BN Coco, Acewell Julia, that lady by Mt. Pleasant, Sweet Alice, Catherine...I'm sure there are others

And they are all in their early thirties.lol.

 

[Mantel]

You can't even trust family members at the best of times and you're talking about trusting girls who see 5-10 guys a day, 2-5 times a week? What was your drug of choice when you came up with this thread and question?

 

[eyeswideshut]

You can't even trust family members at the best of times and you're talking about trusting girls who see 5-10 guys a day, 2-5 times a week? What was your drug of choice when you came up with this thread and question?

I assumed when I read the question that it referred to lies that were told that were unnecessary. For example being told out of the blue that the mpa went out for dinner with some other spa girls when you know she was called into work that same evening. Stuff like that (but I might be mistaken)

People - even close family - will lie if you ask them pointed questions that they don't want to answer. Volunteering lies is another level

What have you guys' experience been? What are some of the worse lies they told you?

Usually someone posting a question like this gives an example but there's none here. Any examples you'd like to share to clarify your question?

 

[OG_funguy]

I assumed when I read the question that it referred to lies that were told that were unnecessary. For example being told out of the blue that the mpa went out for dinner with some other spa girls when you know she was called into work that same evening. Stuff like that (but I might be mistaken)

People - even close family - will lie if you ask them pointed questions that they don't want to answer. Volunteering lies is another level


Usually someone posting a question like this gives an example but there's none here. Any examples you'd like to share to clarify your question?

My example was in the first pic

I find the most common lies are: what they do with other guys, their relationship status and their age. There's almost no point in asking these questions because you know what they tell you will be a lie...

But some lies I find are not really necessary...for example, where else they work, how long they have been doing this, etc. Funny story, I met a new MPA just yesterday, was chatting with her and asked how long she has been doing this. She told me she's very new to this businesss and has only been doing this for a couple of months. Later I was chatting with another MPA I know quite well, turns out she used to work with this girl going back to 2018 lol...

 

[nail1988]

My example was in the first pic

I find the most common lies are: what they do with other guys, their relationship status and their age. There's almost no point in asking these questions because you know what they tell you will be a lie...

But some lies I find are not really necessary...for example, where else they work, how long they have been doing this, etc. Funny story, I met a new MPA just yesterday, was chatting with her and asked how long she has been doing this. She told me she's very new to this businesss and has only been doing this for a couple of months. Later I was chatting with another MPA I know quite well, turns out she used to work with this girl going back to 2018 lol...

The girl who I see often never lie to me and very honest

 

[Satchmo]

Ya... I don't understand the unnecessary lies. It's just habit I think. I've scratched my head 1 too many times trying to figure it out....

 

[Dotanuki]

Ya... I don't understand the unnecessary lies. It's just habit I think. I've scratched my head 1 too many times trying to figure it out....

Lies are employed to gain some kind of leverage. Ex. say they express love for you so that you'll do something for them. They might even give you free sex but as soon as the need is met they withdraw. Worse still when they start asking for money. Some have MULTIPLE sugar daddies and still might have a spouse at home. They rationalize by saying "well don't know how long they will be interested in me" so they try to get as much as they can before being "discarded". Some don't even need the money but love the act of earning so that's what keeps them in.....

 

[DareDevil]

In the sales world if you fabricate stuff and close a sale. Down the road if customer find out many times that will be your last sale. In the spa world, girls lie and we just laugh it off and we still continue to still see some of them....guess the lie is not as hurtful on some of us....lol

 

[Caliper]

I don't contribute much but I have been in this "hobby" for more years then I care to think about. I have been following this thread. I think the better question is can we trust ourselves. All the girls are sales people all selling a product. They want you to buy the product before anything else, so they tell you what you want to hear. Like the rest of society MPA's can be good people or bad people but they all have to make sales. When the prices are the same and the product is similar you will buy from the sales person you like the most. The challenge is getting past the pitch. Maybe over time you will develop a trust or a real personal relationship but I think that is pretty rare.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

There is greed and then there is ruthlessness. Most of us do not like greed in others, but at least we understand it. But ruthlessness is quite shocking. What makes an SW ruthless? It could be drug addiction, it could be acquired bitterness and cynicism that result doing sex work and never having real relationships that work out as a consequence - sometimes we want to date SWs, but we do not want them to meet our families. My guess is the most common cause of ruthlessness is having dependents. The needs of her family far outweigh any guilt she may have about deceiving and using clients and coworkers. A primal drive. Whether in the world of paid sex or in real life, beware of Mama Bears!

 

[Satchmo]

In the sales world if you fabricate stuff and close a sale. Down the road if customer find out many times that will be your last sale. In the spa world, girls lie and we just laugh it off and we still continue to still see some of them....guess the lie is not as hurtful on some of us....lol

Agreed... I am sure many of us on Here have been told we are friends.... until the $ stops flowing... then not so much..

 

[OG_funguy]

The girls lie, we lie...everyone knows this and most of the time it doesn't matter. However, it's when you get very close to a girl and find out about lies that it can sting a bit. As been said a million times already, best not to get emotionally involved but sometimes easier said than done

 

[UsefulIdiot]

The girls lie, we lie...everyone knows this and most of the time it doesn't matter. However, it's when you get very close to a girl and find out about lies that it can sting a bit. As been said a million times already, best not to get emotionally involved but sometimes easier said than done

If we are at all decent we are not going to get through the hobby life unscathed. The important thing is to learn lessons and move forward. Just being bitter and cynical does not serve us.

 

[Satchmo]

If we are at all decent we are not going to get through the hobby life unscathed. The important thing is to learn lessons and move forward. Just being bitter and cynical does not serve us.

Agreed! Take a deep breath....perhaps a "break" and reset before venturing back..

 

[OG_funguy]

Agreed! Take a deep breath....perhaps a "break" and reset before venturing back..

We always tend to forgive the girls we really like...

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Agreed! Take a deep breath....perhaps a "break" and reset before venturing back..

My problem sometimes is I go in there with a positive attitude hoping on a good experience, more than willing to roll with the punches and it makes me a little naive. After the fact big picture, I forgive if she has redeemable qualities, otherwise I swear against her since it is a chunk of change to hopefully get good treatment. As far as lieing go-s, I can expect lieing but I need some level of honesty like first off not ripping me off.